my girls butt is real nice and shaply but her whole is so tight that i cant get in
can someone tell me how to losen her whole so that i can get inside
2007-02-19 04:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by d93end 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
While the most common advice you'll get on anal foreplay is to plowly work your way up to the penis, starting with some tongue action, and then one finger (with a lot of lube), then two, and even three if you're adventurous (always with tons of lube).
It's easier for her to relax if she's into it, though ,so if you're doing anal play mostly for you, it's very important that you turn around a bit and remember her enjoyment. Because she can really enjoy it if it's done properly. Try stimulating her clitorally for while before going for her "hole". This should make her generally more sexually aroused and sensitive. And it should feel good when you play aorund in that area.
I prefer not to have any kind of penetration (as in, no fingers inside) before going being penetrated by a penis. I like to have a lot (A LOT) of teasing until I really want it; that way I'm naturally more open to penetration.
However you get to that point, where she's ready for it, and wants it, always take the actual penetraiton process very slowly. If she's comfortable enough with it, it's a good idea to let her be in control of how far you go in, and how quickly.
It you're hurting her at any time, stop and figure out how to fix it. It should never, ever have to hurt.
2007-02-19 04:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by ATumorNamedMarla 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Patience and lubrication. She needs to be relaxed. Try lubing up your pinky and slowly working it in while your are giving her oral sex. Work up from there.
2007-02-19 12:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww. Anal is wrong bro. What is it you ppl fine great about the anus n your gettin so much trouble cuz ur dick aint belongs there man.
2007-02-19 12:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-02-19 12:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeated anal sex will cause retention problems later. Keep it up and she'll be wearing adult diapers. Won't you have fun then!
And it's HOLE....not WHOLE.
2007-02-19 14:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah just let her relax. we don't like when we are forced to do something. also, distract her so she doesn't think about it like finger her or something so she doesn't feel it. that always for me and my man.
2007-02-19 18:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by glamourific_x3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just spit on your dick and then throw it in really hard. If she cries you know it is in there nice and good.
2007-02-19 15:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by JAR 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋