there is a girl that doesnt know i like her
HELP!!!!!!!!
2007-02-19 03:59:09 · 31 answers · asked by max b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
have you actually spoken to her? this might be a good start
2007-02-19 04:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think that you should bite the bullet and ask, that way you will not have to keep worrying about the answer, if the answer is yes then great but if the answer is no at least you know where you stand and can move on.
Secondly, you can't make somone like you, unless you pretend you are somthing you are not in order to impress which I would not advise. Be yourself and if that is not enough for her then she is not the right girl for you in the first place.
you don't know till you try but I advise you ask her yourself rather than asking a freind to as she will respect you even more for that plus you are noot involving people in your personal life.
Good luck mate and even if it is not the answer you wanted from her there are plenty more fish in the sea.
Take care
2007-02-19 07:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by SHARON S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this approach. See her as you would any other guy in school. Yes, you read right! Treat her as an equal. If you put her on any sort of pedestal, you're immediately telling yourself you're not worthy, that she's in a class above you, etc. and all that's going to do is make your palms that much more sweaty when you first talk to her. So how would you approach a guy... Do a little homework... find something you have in common with her, whether it's liking the same band or types of music, movies, a certain sport, etc... once you've established that, you can approach her on the basis of your common interest. Don't start liking something just because she does... It should be a genuine interest of yours. For example, don't just take up entymology because SHE likes it... My point is this: if you approach her with something to say (common interests, etc.) you'll appear that much more confident and she'll be more apt to see and like the REAL you and more responsive to you. Asking her to go out should be a piece of cake after that. Girls like confidence in guys. You won't just appear as a mealy-mouthed, stuttering geek who's looking for a date...
2007-02-19 05:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Snape 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be quite honest with you... we're in the same boat. But we're alot closer friends now and she keeps droppin' hints as to how she's not seeing anyone and how we got so much in common. You know the sort of thing. Just keep talkin' to her makin (extremely subtle) hints i.e. ask her about past boyfriends, eventually she'll ask u if you're seein anyone at the moment. Just take it smooth from there. If u need any more help or u have any other questions just let me know. And remember....... DON'T SOUND TOO DESPERATE!!!
Thanx 4 ur time.
2007-02-22 02:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by Guitar Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone you've never spoken to
He's a guy you see every day on the bus, or someone who lives in your street.
Make him yours
He's probably noticed you too so use eye contact when you see him. If you flash him a look every time you see him, he's sure to get the message and start chatting to you soon.
3. Someone in your class at school
You may think he never takes any notice of you, but he may just be shy.
Make him yours
Being in the same class gives you the ideal situation to get to know him and there's no need to act differently around him. Self-esteem is contagious. If you appear happy with yourself and your looks, he may start feeling the same.
2007-02-20 22:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Emma K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act relaxed around her and be yourself no one likes a show off now do they just start talking to her if you are having a laugh and getting along with each other then that is a good start ask her if she would like to go out sometime say out for a drink or meal depending on age and circumstances then see how it goes from there but if it it doesn't go well on the first date leave it and move on .
2007-02-19 07:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you may want to talk to her, learn stuff about her. make sure that she knows who you are and then after a few weeks and hopefully she treats you nicely, you could then maybe ask her out. if she doesn't give you any hints that she is interested in you, you could at least be friends with her for now... then maybe after knowing eachother for a while she may start to be interested in you, and if not... then at least you gained a friend.
treat her nice and dont look to desperate!! good luck
2007-02-19 04:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by danielley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i learnt to juggle fire to impress girls in the future lol, but since i dont want u hurting urself, get a mate to ask her, simple and easy and u wont get rejected so hard infront of a group of girls giggling at you, all staring and laughing.....
2007-02-19 05:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by Fire Juggler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont know if she likes u so thats the whole point in asking her out if she says no make her jealous by going with another girl
2007-02-19 04:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lyric H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isnt as bad as u fink that it will b i am telling u this and giving u a girls opinion.first off all start talking to her gradually just look at her and say hello and walk on,then start to smile wen u say hello.and take it from then.dnt give up if u really like this girl then u can make her urs.
2007-02-22 03:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you neede to approach her and let her know that you're interested. Most girls like guys that are sweet, but can defend her if and when it comes down to it. We also like guys who have a sense of humor. Nobody wants to be with someone boring unless they're boring themselves. But most importnant, be yourself and allow her to get to know the real you. We don't like surprise personality down the line!!
2007-02-19 04:06:15 · answer #11 · answered by twinsgirl26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋