My best frnd fell in love wid me...but i seriously have no such feelings for him.
When I say him that i dont love him he asks me the reason and does not get satisfied frm the answer that i give him...
Well yesterday something happened between us (not so serious) and he thinks that i love him
I realized afterwoeds that watever happened must not have happend...
Today i refused his proposal and behaved relly bad to him...I had no other way to tell him taht i dont love him..
I know i did hurt him but as he is my best frnd i even cant see his pain I've always been giving happiness to people and this is the first time i've hurt some1 so much...
2007-02-19 03:05:08 · 14 answers · asked by Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've already yried the stuffs and advices that u all r giving..Tell me somethin' more to do..
2007-02-19 03:16:59 · update #1
tell him u just like him as a friend and u dont want to wreck the bond u have made
2007-02-25 04:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's see if i can understand your spelling. Your best friend fell in love with you, you said "I don't love you" and you gave him reasons that you didn't state. Something happened yesterday that you state wasn't serious, because you realized afterwards that whatever happened must not happen.(I can only assume you did the deed) and now he thinks you love him. DUHHH!!!
And he proposed to you and you refused and behaved like a witch. But thought you had no other way of telling the man who was stupid enough to fall in love with you that you hate his guts. And you are so stuck on yourself that you cannot see the pain that he is feeling because you treated your best friend like crap. Although, I don't see you spreading happiness around the world and I think that this isn't the first time you have hurt him. Do this poor man a favor and leave him alone!
2007-02-26 12:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Maybe a couple of weeks. He will both have space to think, get over the hurt and humiliation and will remember again the friendship you had which was valuable and precious.
Only then will you be able to communicate more clearly and see if you can go forward as friends as before.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 03:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my best friend's brother not knowing my best friend had feelings for me. When I found out I tried to talk to him and he treated me like I had committed a huge sin. I gave up trying to reason with him when he asked me what my husband had that he didn't. My answer? My heart. You need to tell him you can't change your feelings for him and if he doesn't want to accept that, then he needs to distance himself from you. You still want to be friends but not on his terms. His terms are costing more than you're willing to pay. Good luck...
2007-02-26 23:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Deb K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well this is what I will do so don't worry. well I'd talk to him and say I'm sooooooo sorry and that I just see you as a best friend not a boyfirend or husband and also I'd say you are my firend and always will be and I'm sorry I hurt your feeling but I just don't love you as boyfriend or husband... just as a friend.
Now thats the best advise I could give so good luck and I hope everything turns out right :)
2007-02-19 03:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only thing you can do is to apologise and really talk to him.
Make sure that he is clear that you really have no other feelings
for him and apologise if you have made him feel that way. And if
you want to let him know that he will still be your friend and as a
friend, you would always be there for him.
Making one happy is easy Making another sad is even easier...
2007-02-19 03:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe yall need a break from each other...it seems he will never stop liking u if yall dont...just keep on insisting in a nice way that you really dont feel for him and that youre sorry for refusing the proposal but you really dont have the same feelings he has for u...just take a break from each other...i think yall need some time apart
2007-02-19 03:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tomorrow go to him and tell him u like him but only as a Friend
and all that stuff u see on TV
And do it in person Cuzz notes and calls on the Phone will hurt him more
2007-02-19 03:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by RuffRyder 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him u r sorry and if he still acts funny let him go he needs to grow up
2007-02-19 03:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you tell him in a note? Maybe your spelling made him cry.
2007-02-19 03:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋