My X wants me back and lives across the street from me! Says I'm the love of his life, he still loves me, but he only "texts" me or calls me during the week. The weekend comes I don't exist. And he always has a list of excuses come Monday of why he isn't available or "can't" return my calls. There's another girl involved, says he's not happy with her and they are "now" just friends, but calls me a piece of **** and never bother him again...because I have a male friend. Seems like he's playing a game...why would he want me back if he's got a playmate (she's 1/2 his age)? He never apologized for the name calling, but this morning he acts like nothing happened. Do I answer his texts and calls or just ignore them so he can't "push my buttons"?
2007-02-19 02:54:16 · 18 answers · asked by txsdiva99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just sit down and talk to him. Ask him what he wants from you. If he's just playing games with you then tell him to leave you alone. But if he really does want you back then tell him what you want from him. If he really does love you he'll respect your wishes and if he doesn't then you know he's just playing games
2007-02-19 02:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by wish I knew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems as if he is playing a game, he didn't want u until u met someone else. if there is another girl involved, and he is unavailable at times, i would have to say he is still in the relationship with the other woman. he also never apologized, seems as if he is really immature, what does he expect out of u? he is the one who caused the marriage to end because of his cheating. he isn't serious, just a control thing, wants to keep u there at his becoming call. he is with the other girl all weekend. he is just playing with u, so he can split u up with the other man, pay no attention to him, he is not serious based on his actions.
2007-02-19 03:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's a reason he's your EX husband. It didn't work out the first time so I would definately be on a look out. It sounds like he's playing mind games with you. Keep the male friend you have right now and have fun with it. Tell him to leave you alone or ignore his texts/messages. Personally I wouldn't let him back in my life.
2007-02-19 03:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you got married you came as a hole package meaning you and your two children. Your new husband has to realize that you are a mother of two children and that they are part of you. Your kids need you. Give your kids a stable home live, that's what they need and deserve. Why can't you raise your kids with your new husband? If he doesn't like your kids, forget him and look for a new husband.
2016-05-24 08:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical of a man who has to be assured that he still "has" you. Sounds like more of an ego trip for him. I wouldn't answer his texts or calls. I'd move on as quick as I possibly could. Remember, he's your ex for a reason. If you have divorced and he's still playing games, I'd say leave well enough alone!!
2007-02-19 03:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, kick him to to the curb across the street. He is playing games with you and enjoys having you at the edge of your seat. He sounds like a controlling person used to having his way. You'd do best to stay clear; ignore all signals he may be sending you! Good luck!
2007-02-19 04:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by ESTamez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back to your X.it sounds like he is pulling you along!!!there are plenty more fish in the sea so have a night out with the girls and you never know you might meet the man of your dreams!!!
2007-02-19 02:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone if you still love him just be friends for now and hopefully later in life you will be together again. and dont give him no butty thats what he wants.
2007-02-19 03:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an X for a reason.. my x husband just tried to get back with me yesterday..he so desparate it's sad..he had me me and he wasted time partying hanging out with boys so I left.
2007-02-19 03:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate Spice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is obviously your ex for a reason, you should change ur number and move away and start a fresh or the cycle will continue. find someone who really deserves you, life is too short to waste it on a loser
2007-02-19 03:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋