my best frind in the whole world cheated on me with the farther of my child when he was just born altho we wernt together she being my best friend knew i was still in love with him and promised to help me get him back he later decided to bail on me and my son and never look back an iam now happly married with another boy four years on the thing is i really miss my friend after all these years do i get in touch or should i just let lie we have knowen each other since we wer 7
2007-02-19 02:48:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you crazy.
never contact her,she is no friend for what she did.
She may come and ruin what you got now.
unfortunatley not everyone feels the same as you do,you may have really liked her,but she liked lust more than you.
keep away,these type of people are jealous,and always repeat there actions.
2007-02-19 02:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by fozzy01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In that situation I'd say sod it and let her become no more than a memory. People change and if being your best mate since she was 7 didn't stop her wronging you, what other incentive would there be? Fella I grew up with since I was 5 bailed on me when I needed my mates the most when I was around 22, so I just accepted he never really cared about how his actions affected his friends, cut him off and the guys I go out drinking with now are all 5 times the human being he could ever have been, so in a short space of time you won't even miss her anymore.
2007-02-19 10:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Funky B Funky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch get in touch get in touch!
i know what she did hurt you and it was a selfish thing to do, but the fact that youve moved on now,your over that man AND you knew her since you was 7!!! just try and put it behind you. You will feel good about yourself and well the fact that your considering getting back in touch with her shows that you do miss her..
me n my best m8 known each other since we were 3,(were now coming up 18 in a few months)yes we have arguments but if one of us ever have a huge fallen out no matter what the situation is over we both like to think that we weill always remain best/good mates.
So what im basically saying is GO FOR IT!!! :o) :oD
2007-02-19 11:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Loz B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you can deal with what she did and not bring it up, then fair enough. Dont expect miracles though. Things will never be the same as they were before between you even if you have chosen to forgive and forget. You need to be patient and give it time with her
2007-02-19 12:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by fallenangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has betrayed you in the worst way possible. You obviously care for her alot more than she does you. I think she should be the one to get in contact again but obviously she hasn't. But you have moved on now and if you feel you can carry on as things once were without any hard feelings then you should go for it.
2007-02-19 15:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by kate g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she did an unforgivable thing to you as a best freind. To me this says she cant have been your best freind to do that to you .your getting on with your life ,would you like to risk the ex "best" freind repeating this again?Im sure not.I dont think you would beable to stop wondering if shes getting up to old habits again.Move on theirs a true best freind in your partner.GOOD LUCK BE HAPPY.
2007-02-19 11:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by patsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not the past is the past you are happy now so there shouldn't be a problem but don't introduce here to you husband just meet out side the home as you never knowwwwwwwww
2007-02-19 10:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by scubs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you miss her, get in touch with her. What you have to think about though is if you can trust her around your husband, and why (if she's your best friend) she hasn't bothered trying to get in touch with you.
2007-02-19 11:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sandee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get in touch. I lost contact with a very good friend of mine some 10 years ago over something really silly and it still irks me. I have tried to find her, but with no joy. Dizzy, Lucy Williamson if you are out there - please contact me
2007-02-19 11:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Awl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't look back. You may have forgiven but you wont forget. move forward not backwards.
She wasn't any kind of friend to do what she did and who needs friends like that!
bringing her back into your life will open up old wounds....DONT do it
2007-02-19 11:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋