2007-02-19 02:45:48 · 53 answers · asked by amiee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
means he probably has his eye on u, letting u know he is available ad doesn't love her anymore. but if u fall for it, u may be the one who gets the broken heart, u may be the one in a few years he loves, but isn't in love with anymore. means his love comes with conditions, means he gets tired of things fast. personally stay away from him, never date or get involved with a married man, or u will just get the crumbs he throws at u, a few afternoon delights, sex whenever, but what u don't get is a life plus the guilt involved with sleeping with him will eventually tear u apart. means he has no morals, if u were the wife would u want him telling another he don't love u?
2007-02-19 03:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That he has no idea what marriage is all about and he can't hold up his promises. Love in a marriage evolves and many people think they will be passionately in love for eternity. It doesn't work that way. Soon everyday life happens and your relationship evolves. It's not a bad thing, but people think because they don't want to jump their partners bones every minute of every day like they used to that they aren't in love. It also means that when the excitement is out of your relationship, he will be looking for someone to spice it up again, the same as he's doing now to his wife.
2007-02-19 02:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The spark has gone out usually. You can love alot of people without being "in love" with them. That's a different kind of love. This statement says to me that he's not happy with his wife and the interest is probably gone. After you've been in love with someone, you can loose the intimate feelings for them opening up more of a "friend" type love for them. You can still love and respect them as a person, just not more in depth.
2007-02-19 02:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you should run away as fast as you can! I would say, like a lot of people he got board with her and is trying to find a relationship based on lust and infatuation. NOT LOVE! He feels like she is just a friend or a sister. That really sucks, and I hope if this is a guy you are interested in sexually that you don't add to his problems. And try to think of his wife who probably didn't do anything wrong.
2007-02-19 02:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means he has no intention of ever leaving her. Most couples fall out of the "in-love" stage at some point. If someone is telling you this and is expressing an interest in you, run away! Run as fast as you can and don't ever look back.
What do you think will happen? Even if he leaves her for you, he'll end up leaving you when he falls out of "in love" with you.
2007-02-19 02:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is mere confused. He knows nothing about love. You may ask him to be IN love from his wife first. You may also help him and counsel him to love his wife to the extent to be IN love with her. If he says so to you, he may says so to many others so don't leave him in the world, he may cause a lot of problem to many. He is infected with wrong conceptions. If you have any concern, give him soft and gentle treatment so that he may learn how to be IN love with his own wife.
2007-02-19 02:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by pkeleti72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he wants you to think it means: This guy may fall in love with me, if I am a better lover than his wife ever dreamed of being.
What it really means: He is going to use you like a roll of toilet paper and then say, I thought you understood I still had feelings for my wife.
2007-02-19 02:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Hatem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would mean I want to have extracurricular activities with you but I am not ready to divorce my wife. I just want to play. No commitments at this time. If something arises, such as falling in love with him He can say I told you from the beginning I was married.
2007-02-19 03:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Michele C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he is very fond of her and may not want to end the relationship, but just that the magic and excitement has faded.
In my situation this type of situation can be remedied by adding some variety and interest to the relationship again>>> its just a warning sign which says that things should be kick started for the better.
Its a very honest and difficult thing to admit.
2007-02-19 02:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's saying he loves her but he got bored with her and their marriage isn't excited anymore . Leave that man alone he is a loser . How can he give up on his wife without finding the spark that may excite their marriage .
2007-02-19 02:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Me777 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋