If you knes that your wife really wanted to have a baby, so bad in fact that she has cried herself to sleep before and has said that her heart yearns for a child, would you a) sit down together to work out a plan that the two of you could start trying to have a baby as soon as possible or b) freak out, tell her that you are not ready yet, stop bothering you about having a baby, there are things you want to do first so stop focusing on having a baby?
some key facts: your wife is over 30 and have never had kids, you and her have been married over 3 years, you already have a house with 4 bedrooms that just the two of you live in, both of you have good jobs and no debt outside of the mortgage...
2007-02-19 02:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really love her and would do anything for her. If it was me I would have already had a baby with her. I know it's strange for a guy to think this way but why let a woman go into depression because they guy is dumb and all he thinks is about himself and his money. Because according to your question yea you got a house money and all and your and her are the only one's living in it. SO why but such a selfish idiot and make your wife suffer like that. I bet if you'll have a baby you won't help in raising it, so go ahead and be a man's man and give your wife a baby and make her happy. Or esle she might just leave your sorry butt and find one who will. your selfish butthead
2007-02-19 02:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
(It's hard to tell, but I'm assuming this was written by the wife.)
My heart goes out to you. This is a terrible thing for a woman to experience, I'm sure. Having a baby is what you are biologically designed to do and the natural course of life is taking you along that path.
If your husband hasn't responded to your pleas, you must seek outside assistance from a trained therapist and/or mutually-agreed-to clergy. I'm sure that you can work things out with assuming that your husband is a loving and reasonable person.
Don't wait to make this move. Your clock is ticking, so to speak. Good luck and God bless.
2007-02-19 02:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want children ?
If yes then sit down and discuss this
If no you have a serious problem in your relationship
What ever you do do not bring a baby in to this world for the wrong reasons. A child is a life long commitment
2007-02-19 02:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by deardaveuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to say I'd do anything to work it out with her..if I had a heart, that is. However, since I'm not married, to be honest I'd have to say it depends on how much I cared for her. If I cared enough for her to help her have a baby, then I would. But if I didn't care that much for her, I'd have to let her go, so she could find a good guy who would give her the life she wants. I wouldn't hold her back.
2007-02-19 02:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first i hug my wife an do what ever it took to help her, some women need to know the love of their own child,,,honest i belive she think she not a women with out a child.,,it call being a mother, an you should do what every you can to help her reach her need, by the way 30 not old,an she make a great mom,be glad you have a wife like her . love her an treat her ,like a queen
2007-02-19 02:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a). I mean like why not? You might not get the same chance in the future and regret for life. Its hard bringing up a kid so do it early man, you are mature enough and don't upset your wife over such a problem.
2007-02-19 02:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have three kids and if my wife wanted another I would be all for it! So I guess I am not the one to ask!
Talk with him about it, see what his concerns and fears are!
2007-02-19 02:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably a. you knew when you got married this would happen so go for it !
2007-02-19 02:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by hdwasp59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do it
2007-02-19 02:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by miaghysun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋