I asked a few days ago but got no response!!
Anyway I have been seeing a guy on and off for about 5 yrs.
When I back off from the relationship, he hounds me for weeks till I return his calls. When I do, and end up sleeping with him he backs off and doesnt contact me. Its a cycle, I know.
Last week same thing happened, I slept with him and he lasted around 5 minutes! I thought it may have been because we had not seen each other for a while and so he was really worked up, he could not get hard again after either. I text him a few days later and he said I dont turn him on anymore and sorry!!
I was devastated, he always does this sort of stuf to me, then rings me again in a few weeks. However this time Im not sure as to say that I dont turn him on anymore, why would he call.
This sort of thing has been going on for years. Im really confused as I have feelings for him (obviously)
2007-02-19 02:43:49 · 6 answers · asked by pina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget about him he means you no good he only comes to you because he knows you will sleep with him. Go out find some ne that won't say bad this about you. Do not try to call him and not answer his call let him be sister, he is not worth the emotional tormoil you are putting your self through over him. I know you have feelings for him but the relationship is not worth the stress
2007-02-19 02:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is using you. Tell him he doesn't turn you on with his crappy attitude and that you need more of a real man. Anyway, with just 5 minutes involved, you ain't missing nothing! There is way better to be had. Don't waste your time on this wannabe.
2007-02-19 02:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like am immature jerk.. It looks like he's just using you for a booty call. Do u really want to be treated like this? You don't deserve this.. Move on, its for the better. Try to occupy your time with friend and family. Sounds like you like him, but he doesn't respect you.
2007-02-19 02:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by *SeXyB* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't like how the relationship is playing out, and you need a full time boyfriend, either set up to the plate, or leave. that should get his attention.
2007-02-19 02:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by ifyoulovehim, t e l l him<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he just wants to sleep with you. girl dont take that! stand up for yourself! you can obviously do better!! theres more to relationships than just sex! he doesnt seem to realize that.
so get someone new that doesnt trest you this way!
2007-02-19 02:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by someone, somwhere... in love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is a little afraid...
2007-02-19 02:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by miaghysun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋