hi, my name is matt.i am 12 years in the 7 th grade. i have known my best friend bill since 1st grade and their is a very bad situation with bill's brother. bill's brother(bob) is a 9 th grader who is supposed to be a 10th grader because the teacher in a church school as traditionally held him back about 10 years ago. that wasn't any of his fault. they did that to every boy. so any way, bob has been yelling and scream like crazy at his mom for all his life. when me and bill were in 3rd grade and bob was in fifth grade, he really started becoming an very extreme maniac. he is said by his and doctor that he has mental problems. he hits his mom and his brother all the time. he forces his mom to buy whatever he wants including expansive baseball cards and baseball equipments, snacks, and video games, and game systems, and sodas, red bull. and if the mom doesn't do it he starts hitting her. the other year bob became a suicidal and cutted himself with a knife like crazy.
2007-02-19 02:38:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
his whole arms were full of cuts from an actual knife. he hits and yells like crazy at bill's mom and bill and bill's dad. bob cares about baseball more than his family and baseball is his whole entire life. bill is always in a bad mood for that. and also, bob doesn't leave me and bill alone when we are around. he wants us to play with him all the time. last night, when me and bill came to my house from the skatepark, bill started telling my dad and my sister about what bob does. i told bill not to my family anything about bob, but he said he is going to keep doing it. then, i told him they don' t need to know anything about bob. probably, i cannot go to bill's house anymore. what can i do to stop bill from telling my family about bob.
2007-02-19 02:44:58 · update #1
explain this to a teacher or an adult that you trust they will help him there are all kinds of help out there for someone like that but i wouldnt wait for answers from all us here online i would go and tell someone k and goodluck
2007-02-19 02:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this is what i think, so sorry to say it, but this guy needs to be locked up where Dr. can help him around the clock or really strong meds. Does he even have some. As a friend you can't do to much, ur a bystandered. If your friend needs to talk to someone, be there. You may have ur mom and his mom talk and maybe they can help the bro out better, maybe ur friends mom would really like to talk to another parent about this kind of thing
2007-02-19 02:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Julie Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Matt,
It sounds as though your friend definitely has issues. It is sad when families are in turmoil like this. Try to be good support for your friend. Tell him the next time his brother hits his mom to call the police. She may not be strong enough to do it. They definitely need some help!
2007-02-19 02:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Matt. You need to tell your friend that he needs to call the police when Bob hits Bill or his mother. The mother may not be as strong as to call the cops on her own son. My second thing to tell you is that we need to keep this family in prayer. Families that are in turmoil need Jesus and his blessings.
I will keep praying for you also so that you have enough strength to carry your friend.
2007-02-19 02:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bob needs to see a doctor and counsellor as soon as possible, he could be a manic depressive or bi-polar. His mother needs to take him, or tell someone about Bob before he hurts someone badly. There a tests and medications available for people like that. She could start telling a councillor at school about his behaviour and they might be able to defer her to a doctor.
2007-02-19 02:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh its a really difficult situation your friend is going through,but the thing u can do is that tell your friend family that u should go to the doctor because he can do anything physically to himself and otheres. the thing u can only do is sit with him in a peaceful mannar.and let him feel that he is good and best especially in the studies.you must take to him with a mental doctor.
2007-02-19 02:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by steffi221989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a talk with your brother. Tell him you know that he is doing it only to protect you cuz he loves you. Tell him that he has gotten it across to your b/f now. Also tell him that if he loves you and wants you to be happy then you would like him to get to know the b/f better as a person that you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. Good luck.
2016-05-24 08:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Cynthia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: Therapy.
Apparently, he's very angry (no duh!) and he needs to get the anger out. He might be austistic, because I've heard of autistic people doing that. Bob needs discipline. Tell the mother to refuse to buy Bob whatever he wants. If he hits her, she should call someone, or deflect the blow and grab his hand, then lead him out of the store.
2007-02-19 02:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bob needs to see a therapist- he may be schizophrenic
2007-02-19 02:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear of the trouble,,, but honest it his mom that got to make the first step, in getting him help,,,may be if you talk to his mom, an tell her to put him in a hospital, are may be get your mom an dad to help
2007-02-19 02:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋