he says it is because for one, my moods and two my family. but i wasnt any different the first time we got pregnant with our now 71/2 month old son. ive been having baby blues since 3 months and i would like our children to be close together. how should i go about the situation. im dealing with it and i wont do anything like poking holes in condoms, i just mean how do i accept the fact of change the way i am. just need advice. no outburst comments. serious answers only.
2007-02-19 02:37:08 · 6 answers · asked by miraclebaby_2006 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
you should wait i have two kids and one on the way my oldest son is 3 my youngest is almost two and my baby id due two days after my youngest sons birthday and i thought i was ready for this but i wasn't when i got further along in the pregnancy i realized that it is harder with two or more that are close in age because you have to deal with alot of stuff alone because money will have to be made and it is ok with two but three is hell so put some distance with them my kids are 18 months apart and i still struggle with some issues. So just take your time that and the fact that children who are close in age have some one to play with but they fight alot for the spot light because when one gets the light the other wants it and that is hard to do
2007-02-19 02:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by third times a charm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may just still need to get used to the amount of change a baby brings into a family. Give him a couple more months and see if he warms up to the idea.
2007-02-19 02:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe try couples counseling. your baby is only 71/2 months old!! let him be a baby for a while. see how you feel about another one then. your body hasent even really fully recovered from the birth of your first. dont be in such a rush for another, be thankful you were blessed with the one you have now.
2007-02-19 04:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have read that your body isn't fully healed until 18 months after birth. We all know it's very possible to conceive before this, but it might be harder on your body.
Plus, at 7/12 months, your baby hasn't started doing all of the exciting things yet....like walking, talking, dancing....
2007-02-19 04:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may not think you have changed, but i'm sure that others around you, such as your husband, have noticed. having children is something that the two of you should agree on. i agree with him. let your mood stabilize before you have any more children.
2007-02-19 02:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him time to get used to the idea. maybe he just needs to convinced you can handle another baby this soon. it took me about 4 months to talk my husband into trying to have one. he was worried about every possible thing you could be worried about. but now he wants one and is excited to start trying. just give it time.
2007-02-19 03:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by akp_02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋