He has called to tallk with the children, not with me.
2007-02-19 02:25:13 · 18 answers · asked by Ghost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I am not waiting for him to come back. He hasn't talked with the children in a yr now. He don't really care about the children.And they don't really care for him. My 10 yr old son told his father that he wants me to find him a better father. My youngest daughter never talked with him on the phone (her choice).
2007-02-19 02:46:39 · update #1
I want to get a divorce but I don't know where he is. He moved from his last address that I knew. I don't have any way of finding him so that I could get a divorce.
2007-02-19 02:52:53 · update #2
I have always paid the bills even when he was around. He don't support us with money at all, never has.
2007-02-19 02:58:10 · update #3
I hope you have not been waiting for him.
Yes it is desertion.
Does he want to be a father to his children, do they still want to know him
You need to give him a chance to be a dad, but as far as you are concerned find someone else, you deserve better
2007-02-19 02:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by deardaveuk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is amazing. How you have managed to stay married and not see him or talk to him in 6yrs. Why are you waiting to get a divorce? Are you hoping to get back with the jerk? Is he still paying all the bills while he is getting his grove on with someone else? That could be the only reason why I would think you didnt get a divorce.
Consulting an Attorney is your best bet. Good luck.
2007-02-19 10:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mum to 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Divorce to get your freedom but allow him to keep contact with the children. Already u can see hes got nothing to do with u
2007-02-19 10:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. File divorce and let the lawyers figure it all out. Not to mention child support. I bet he'll be calling to talk to you more often then!
2007-02-19 10:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. get a lawyer and get your divorce ASAP ! Don't wait for him at all. Continue forward for yourself and your children. If he left without saying a word why talk with him? he can continue talking with his children but you don't have a relationship with him and he obviously went on with his life so do the same for you. Good luck!
2007-02-19 10:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by rencar32002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is in the military Yes....divorce him and get child support!
2007-02-19 10:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by b_fab115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce he's just staying married so that he doesn't have to pay child support and he doesn't have to pay allumoni
2007-02-19 10:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by PUTTIN' TANG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is, if you have not lived under the same roof for that amount of time.
2007-02-19 10:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIX YEARS. WHOA. IS HE SUPPORTING YOU AND THE CHILDREN $$$$?? YOU NEED TO HAVE A CONSULT WITH A LAWYER. HE/SHE WILL BE ABLE TO 'STEER' YOU IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. USUALLY A CONSULT IS FREE. HOW HAVE YOU BEEN ABLE TO LAST THIS LONG??
2007-02-19 10:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by SWEET SARAH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he misses you but he wants to talk to them and one day he may call you.
2007-02-19 10:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by alexandria347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋