whats the best way to get back at someone who made you out to be a liar when you are not
2007-02-19 02:07:37 · 37 answers · asked by taggie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
While I know that you want revenge, it is better to not go there. I know right now your saying to your self b.s. I want get back at this person. The reason I'm telling you this is simple, it's called karma. In other words what goes around comes around and it will come back to this person. Usually what ever you dish out to some one comes back to you for what ever you did or said, but when it comes back it comes back even harder.
There are already people who know you as a person, and they know the true you. True friends won't listen and they most likely will end up telling the person off. Don't soil your own hands by trying to get revenge, you will only make look as bad as the person who did this to you. And if by any chance any one does believe what has been said by this person, you most certainly will know who your true friends really are.
It's a fact that when some one calls us a liar or says that we have done some thing to them; we usually end up feeling guilty even when we have done nothing wrong. So we end up wanting/needing to prove we haven't done anything.
Let it go, your true friends know you and how your are and they won't believe this person's lies. Why waste your time trying to prove it to others, as I said the people who all ready know you won't believe them any way.
There's a lot of evil in this word and it is a shame. Don't let your self get sucked into being just as bad as this person. Let it go, be the bigger/better person that you already are.
God Bless you, the truth will show it's self. Take care.
2007-02-19 03:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is only going to end up biting you in the rear. You need to just let it be karma will bite them in the rear. When you do something bad to get back at someone you are going to keep going back and fourth and it will never end. That's no way to keep going. My ex-boyfriend told my family, friends and my neighbors horrible things about me. I didn't do anything I just let it go. And he couldn't he would flatten my tires on my car I even had a blow out on the expressway could of been in a bad accident. He just wouldn't stop! Well now he is facing 2 DUI's and a felony. And I am doing fine and have no problems at all. So when you do nothing and be the better person even though it is hard. It will come back to them. If you rebel it's only going to make it harder on you.
2007-02-19 02:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cut them off completely..learn from the experience, and move on. Revenge takes up too much energy and besides..do you want people to think that you're a liar and coo-coo bird crazy?
2007-02-19 02:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
revenge is such an immature and a Neanderthalic reaction. Consider the insult from where it came, consider that SOMEWHERE in this situation, there has been suggestions for you to improve. Other than that, don't give it another thought. Get on with your life
2007-02-19 02:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by al b 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
confront that person in front of there friends and make them look like a fool and make it clear to them ur not a liar that infact they r the liar 4 saying u r good luck!
2007-02-19 02:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by natasha k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't dignify it with a response. Your integrity should speak for itself. I never worry about what people say about me. If they're talking about me, they're letting someone else rest!! When you are an honest person with good morals, people know when a lie is a lie! Let your character reveal the deception.
2007-02-19 02:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is to ignore that person, act like you don't know them, they are the liars not you....make it look like it's not bothering you...if you retaliate then they have won...just ignore it...you know that you didn't lie, it just makes them look stupid...they are just immature idiots
2007-02-19 03:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the answer, I know that is not what you want to hear. The wheel of life turns and every dog gets his day.....
2007-02-19 02:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by Ladybird 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
why bother? If your not then why get all annyed about it just looks like you are one because evryone knows the more you defend yourself over something the more liekly you are to have done it. So what rise above it! Why sink to their level. Makes you just as sad.
2007-02-19 03:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it! I know it sounds stupid and soooo not fun but it works best. If you get revenge on this person she will only re-seek it on you!
2007-02-19 02:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋