2007-02-19 01:54:34 · 17 answers · asked by tony21_and_steve17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some people don,t know what real love is
2007-02-19 03:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Janet C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are reasons as why they do this.. they might not be happy anymore w/ their corresponding partners... like there's no spark.. i have this article: please read... hope this helps....
Cheaters 101
Five Signs of Infidelity
by A.K. Boyle
Published: 02/15/2007Send This Article To a Friend
Have a hunch something is up but can't put your finger on it? Before you go pointing it in his direction with accusations, look for the five major signs you and your partner actually have something to talk about.
Suddenly distant
Has he stopped calling when he's out of town? Do your once side-splitting anecdotes no longer amuse him? While you should expect that initial obsession to cool a bit in time, sudden loss of interest can be cause for concern.
Suddenly attentive
Cheaters are renowned over-compensators. If your partner is suddenly and uncharacteristically attentive, he or she may be struggling with infidelity-related remorse. Watch out for guilt-assuaging gifts and unusually helpful behavior. Inexplicable surrenders in arguments and uncharacteristic compromises are also telling signs.
Sex drive in neutral
There are always a number of suspects for a drop in libido, including stress, low self-image, legal and illegal drugs and depression. It can also be a manifestation of other dysfunctions within a relationship. But if you are confident that your mate and your relationship are otherwise in sound condition, it could be that someone else is monopolizing his attention -- and his libido.
Sudden changes in routine
Watch for an unexplained investment in his wardrobe and a new enthusiasm for the gym. If your partner becomes suddenly infatuated with his looks, he might be just plain infatuated. In fact, any major changes in routine are suspect. We are, after all, creatures of habit. One upside of that is that when we do shake things up, there's always a reason. If he's no longer available for your standing lunch dates, pay attention. Should your die-hard morning-bather begin rushing to the shower after work, don't write it off. A sudden change in the schedule doesn't have to point to indiscretion, but it should make you say "hmmm," and then: "Do we have something to talk about?"
Suddenly secretive
Has your loquacious mate been a little tongue-tied lately? It's possible there's something he doesn't want you to know. People who have something to hide won't volunteer a lot of information about what they're hiding--but they may have an awful lot to say about everything else. Also be wary of explanations that seem strangely complicated and unnecessary. If your partner has no reason to feel defensive, then what's with all the mystery?
So now what?
Before you put him on the spot, make sure your partner's behavior doesn't have an obvious explanation. Paranoid accusations can destroy a relationship as surely as infidelity. It is possible that his conduct has another cause -- even that it's symptomatic of a separate problem in your relationship. Remember, the key to all the signs is that they are both sudden and unexplained.
If you do feel you have grounds for suspicion, proceed with caution, no matter how hurt you may be feeling. Tell your partner what changes you've observed, and why you're concerned that you are not as close as you once were. His reaction should help you assess whether your suspicions are justified. He may even welcome the chance to discuss what's on his mind. If, on the other hand, he tries to take the Fifth, this relationship may not be the loving, trusting partnership you deserve. Don't let the door hit him on the way out (unless you think you'd get a good laugh).
2007-02-19 10:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they get bored of the person there with, and its easier for some people to cheat on there partner than break up there home .
2007-02-19 10:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by amiee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there is something wrong in the relationship people tend to cheat. Some are selfish, and dont think of the other persons feelings. Some dont know how to control their sexual urges.
2007-02-19 10:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is the absence of Emotion. The lack of Love. No Love? No relationship. Move on! Oh yeah! Been there!
2007-02-19 09:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some partners do not make them feel wanted.
You all need to feel loved and wanted and if home is not where the love is then they go elsewhere
2007-02-19 09:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by sylvie c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
selfishness, lack of conscience, desire for variety, vanity/ego, etc...basically a cheater is someone who puts their hormonal urges above all else (above love, above trust, and everything else). They decide an orgasm (physical or virtual) is worth risking their relationship and more.
I've never known of an orgasm that was "that" good.
2007-02-19 10:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I presume for many reasons.
But I think cheating is the lowest of the low!!!
2007-02-19 10:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they married a dog.
2007-02-19 10:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kicks - the only reason anyone does anything.
2007-02-19 10:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋