Wives ,do you're husband act sexual in front of you're children ?Like pat you're bottom or have lustful eyes

Answer 1

As long as it's G rated. What I mean is as long as it's done in a loving manner. You'll know when he's crossed the line! My husband grabs me and pulls me close, hugs me from behind, etc. and yes we kiss often. But he doesn't cross the line. i.e. grabbing my behind, giving me the eye like he could pounce at any minute, etc. That's just plain rude and disrespectful. If it's done in an appropriate manner, then it teaches your children that daddy really loves their mommy.

Something to also think about. Hopefully he also shows you (and your children for that matter) that he appreciates you and helps out around the house. Nothing like a major rennovation, but little things, i.e. soaking the dishes, taking out the trash, warming your car when it's cold out, etc.

Answer 2

A little bit of sexuality is okay, as long as he's not humping your leg or anything 'pornographic'..it's okay for children to see parents kissing a little or a bottom back. It teaches them healthy sexuality and affection between married people. Hiding physical affection makes kids wonder 'do married people have sex' especially if they are teenagers, then it's totally age appropriate to see your parents as someone with a sexuality too!

My lover and I are childfree, but both of our parents did little things like that, nothing too graphic of course, but a bottom pat or lustful eyes even a comment here and there is normal!

Answer 3

.Honey! If you're married to a man who does that to you. Then grab the loving man in both arms and give him the most passionate kiss you can. God love him there's not enough of that around these days. I raised my child in that atmosphere and she turned out to be a well rounded compassionate and passionate Woman, who married a man who thinks the world of her and acts the same way. Your children won't suffer from seeing their Parents being flirty towards each other. In fact it re-enforces their sense of intimacy and stability. Too many children just witness the opposite, fighting or demeaning the other, so go with it and enjoy every bit of it. Just don't feel embarrassed the kids will pick up on that , it won't be quite as positive an experience for them as it could have been. Good Luck and Enjoy . Ciao Lynda

Answer 4

My husband was doing those things around our kids. They would roll their eyes and tell us to get a room. They always smiled afterward. We would all have a good laugh. I think it made them glad that we were still attracted to each other. It helped them to know our relationship was solid and that we could have fun. We didn't do anything inappropriate in front of them, just looks or he would give me a pat on the bottom. Our kids just laughed and went on. Affection between married people in front of their children in healthy.

Answer 5

My husband is affectionate and pats my behind and we kiss passionately in front of our children. We would never go any further though!! Children need to see their parents love eachother, it builds for healthy relationships. That's what people in love do.

Answer 6

I think it is healthy for childeren to see a little bit of affection between their parents. As long as it isn't nasty! A lustful look, a butt pat, an affectionat hug or kiss. Nothing wrong with that. If it makes you uncomforatabl for him to tap your butt, just ask him to do it when they aren't looking. As for lustful eyes, how old are your kids! I don't think they think what you think when you see him look at you like that!

Answer 7

I don't know that a look or bottom pat is sexual, I'm not going to wear handcuffs in front of my kid, but I will still be affectionate to my wife around them, they should know what a good marriage looks like.

Answer 8

Of course. I see no need to hide simple affections from children. The act of sex sholdn't be veiwed by your children, but little behaviours like that show the children that thier parents love each other.

Answer 9

Yes, small tokens of affection in front of the kids is good. In a world where all of their friends parents are divorced or are divorcing it makes them feel safe because they know mom and dad love each other. Notice I did say small tokens of affection, keep it clean.

Answer 10

I think some playful actions are okay. It just shows the children that mom and dad have feelings of emotions and some actions are appropriate in mixed company. I draw the line at grabbing my breast.