I'm married for 6 yrs, my husband Cheated me 5 times w/ different woman the last time he cheated me the girl get pregnant,now eventually my love towards him turns to hatred,he apologize but I'm afraid i may happen again.It's almost a year now then I meet this guy, were in the same situation his wife cheated him also,we kept on seeing each other, I'm happy when I'm with him,and felt he feel the same way too.. but we both married,we're falling in love with each other!we're leaving on a country were divorce is not allowed... we both have one kid..... any advice.. terribly needed......we both worked abroad.
2007-02-19 01:53:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
geez 5 times and he said he won't do it again? what'd he say on the 2nd 3rd and 4th time?
don't believe him. he is definately not the right guy for you.
there are familys with step brothers and sisters. its normal and they will understand as the kids get older and usually dont make a big deal about it. but wherever your heart is you should go for
2007-02-19 01:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you need to get your own life together before you decide to go off with someone else. What country do you live in where divorce isn't allowed....I think maybe you should try to get divorced. You may have to do some searching but hopefully you can get out of the marriage. Also Do not go after this married man, you know how you were crushed when you were cheated on why do the same to someone else.
2007-02-19 01:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by b_fab115 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you're very hurt, and I feel for you. It's just so easy to fall for someone you meet online, and especially through the daily exchange of messages. It creates an intimacy that you have to be careful to know how to handle. But you have to remember that he's MARRIED, and keep that at the forefront of your mind, because you're the one who's going to be left feeling alone and abandoned when this exciting flirtation comes to an end. He'll just go back to his family, or, even worse, move on to his next online conquest. If this progressed to a real-life meeting after just a few weeks, I think he's quite a practised player. Be very, very wary of taking seriously his declarations of love. If there was any credibility to him at all, he'd resolve his marriage FIRST before he came chasing after you. It's really demeaning to you to be strung along as his bit of fun on the side. You deserve better than that. I do feel that you need to separate yourself from this man altogether. He is married and there's no future in it - you KNOW it's crazy. You're being used too. He has a hold over you and your emotions, and he knows it. You need to remove yourself from his influence, don't engage in any further online or phone chat with him, and take determined steps to move on. You really need to make a point of getting out with your friends, getting him out of your mind, and hopefully you'll soon meet an AVAILABLE man who can validly win your heart and is free to give his.
2016-05-24 08:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make absolutely sure that your married boyfiends wife really cheated on him or is he just saying this so he can have an affair. Remember how you felt when your spouse cheated on you, do you want to do that to someone else? That really makes you no better than your husband. If this man you are seeing, really does not love his wife for whatever reason, then he needs to leave her as you need to leave yours, then you can work on a relationship, until then you are both living a dangerous lie and one of you is going to be emotionally hurt.
2007-02-19 02:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you both abroad in the same country? Otherwise the realities of being together may not click. Just be careful that you are falling for HIM and not just falling for someone who is finally treating you well.
Do you have the money for an annulment? Have you thought about going on a marriage retreat or counselling? How old are the kids (both your and his)?
2007-02-20 02:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by fakebobjones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay! You 're having feelings for a Married Guy? Next, I want you go out into a Busy Interstate Road? And just lay down! Just let any and everyone, run all over you. `Cause that's exactly what you're doin' to yourself. Show some Self- Respect, here. Later!
2007-02-19 01:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Karma Sweetie...what goes around comes around. You need to divorce your husband. And if this married man who "loves you", and I'm assuming respects you..right? Decided to divorce his wife then your proceed. But don't do it while you are both still married/committed to someone else no matter the circumstances.
2007-02-19 02:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh how sweet the two of you repay your spouses with an affair! I have no sympathy...you all deserve each other. Just because your spouses cheated doesn't make it right for you to cheat.
2007-02-19 01:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's adultery.
yes, regardless if your husband has been faithful or not.
more lives will be messed up if you continue the adulterous relationship (the family of the man you are attracted to, his wife & kids, yours, your husband)
cut the relationship.cut it!
talk to a priest/pastor or a close friend about your problem.
there's this cool site: preacherinbluejeans.com.
check it out.
2007-02-19 02:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
End one relationship before you begin another.It sounds like you both are still angry with your spouses.You may be comforting each other BUT that isnt LOVE.
2007-02-19 02:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by april showers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋