why is it that every thinks that its wrong for me to embrace the fact that i am a lesbian and have a girlfriend that i love very much. even the gay/lesbian people that i know think that i am crazy. like i don't go around and yell to the world that i'm a lesbian its just that if someone ask me i'm not afraid to say yea i'm a lesbian and i don't try to hide it or cover it up or lie about who i am. and i wear a rainbow bracelet sometimes but thats it not a whole outfit. i love who i am and i don't know why people think that its something wrong with the fact that i embrace it. wats wrong with wat i am doing???!!!
2007-02-19 01:48:51 · 13 answers · asked by da_mixd_mami 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im not saying that i think being a lesbian is wrong im just trying to find out why people think i should hide the fact that i am a lesbian
2007-02-19 02:59:54 · update #1
Dude, it's not wrong. People are just sooo narrow-minded. I find it very upsetting that homosexuality is taboo in today's day and age. And I think I kinda know what your going through. My religious beliefs are slightly left of centre and therefore considered to be illegitimate and "wrong" or "evil". It makes for quite a struggle, but I just try to remind myself that stupid people are always gonna be there and I just have to learn to ignore them.
2007-02-19 02:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kreen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, there is something wrong with you community. Sometimes it seems like gay guys really want the attention from being gay, like to get compensation for their pain or something. What you're doing is perfect, as you said, you don't go around screaming, "I'm homosexual, everyone look at me." But you will not hide who you are to fit the straight people's ideals.
This is the best combonation of lifesytles I have ever seen or heard of. Keep it up!
2007-02-19 02:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, there is NOTHING wrong with being lesbian. And I also think that it is really awesome for you to tell the truth. If you try and cover it up, you are just telling them about someone else that might not even exist. And for the record, there is NOTHING WRONG with what you are doing. (Sorry if this isn't the answer you wanted)
2007-02-19 02:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by NOT TELLING!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 06:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being lesbian/gay so don't let them get you down. You just hav to live life the way you have been.
2007-02-19 02:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Crush06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wear a pride necklace every single day. Occasionally a bracelet and/or cuff. I've never met someone, in or out of the community, that said something about how out I am.Just do your thing and enjoy life.
2007-02-19 16:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know who the people are that are trying to trash you, but don't let them get you down. Just keep doing what you are doing. As long as you are not...yelling it to the world...as you say, they have no right to be hassling you. Be strong. They'll eventually get the hint that you are not going to change to suit them, and they'll either accept that or not. You cannot change other people, they can only change themselves. So be yourself. Good luck.
2007-02-19 02:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it. I want some clarification what people are saying/doing to you to make you think so.
2007-02-19 02:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by tb75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NOT wrong, sweetie!
I'm a lesbian too, and I know there's nothing wrong with it.
2007-02-19 02:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by Rissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING IS WRONG with being who you are! You're fine and they're not.
Don't let the narrowminded people get to you, live your life true to yourself.
2007-02-19 02:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by FTW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋