2007-02-19 01:23:39 · 5 answers · asked by menevergreen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is just right, then it can go south. Women that have spoken to me about their plans have all had to adjust to the very high divorce rate. Women outnumber the men by some incredible ratio, something like 7 to 1 in the big cities, and the men are not really set up to turn women down. My experience is that to say "no" is to invite a mean rumor campaign, even when I was married. This competition for male company has caught a lot of women off guard, many a woman who put her career behind the happy home were not so happy about it when Mr Right caved in to Ms Rat, and left home. Women really do need to develop their potential as the bread winner, and fully develop it, to secure financial safety in case of male instability. She can't depend upon him anymore. Abusive couples are the worst, relationships going up in flames overnight, and this can catch the unwary female in a bad way, she's gonna need that degree.
2007-02-19 01:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is the main thing
With love you can handle anything - a good or bad job. No love then what is there to look forward to at the end of the day
2007-02-19 09:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me both!coz i was a person who hated to think abt getting married n settle dwn in life.i was mor to career minded thn love lif.but now i hv no choice but to choose love first.coz u can make ur career life anytime but not love.so u got to deside wht u wnt first?ur carrer or love.n one more thing..to me u hv to secrifise ur little wishes for ur love.n it really worth it.trust me...
n i hv desided to do both at the same time .as long ur partner has no objection thn why u bother?jst do wht ur heart says k...i knw its not easy but still cant leave love life for career.although it has been my dream scince i was young.......
2007-02-19 09:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by pinky_noor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I would give up my career to stay home with my family that I created with my love.
But if a man gave me a choice- him or my job, I would choose my job. No man who truly loves me or anyone could give someone that choice.
2007-02-19 09:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first carrier then love
2007-02-19 09:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋