Healthy relationship?

Question

Is it true if you make effort than it will suceed? I'm asking this cuz tthey are people that they don't bother too much about relationship but they click with their mates, and yet others try so hard with but unfortunately no result.

Picking the right guy and the wrong one....

thank you ina advance.

Answer 1

sorry honey, sometimes in some relationships, no matter how hard you try, you still might not make it. Both of you have to want it to work for it to succeed. A relationship takes two people, it can't be all one person doing it all, it just will not work. too much resentment will build, lack of trust sets in- and most times with good reason- it has to be both that want it... been there, done that.

Answer 2

It's only partly true. It takes more than one person to make a successful relationship. Both parties have to have certain things in common. For instance, communication style, level of affection needed, moral values, etc.

Both need to have similar views of what a relationship means to them. In a nutshell, they have to have more in common than just "chemistry".

Answer 3

A healthy relationship needs 2 people who are both making sure their relationship is rewarding for both of them.

Answer 4

Agreed, both have to want it.

Here's how you can make it the best it can be: Make a list of all the great things you love about the person you're with. Imagine them like that, remember them like that - you will draw it out of them. 30 days, 10 mins per day - Guaranteed Results.

If they want it to work too - you're set. If not - then cut loose with good feelings. No resentments is KEY. Take some time to rebalance yourself before you get into it again.

Redefine who you are, what you want from life ... get that lined up then define what type of person you want...then go about your day in a happy way and you'll have that match shortly.

Taking that time for yourself is how you break the cycle of same guy, same guy, same guy.

Good work.