i have cystic ovaries,bilateral,3.24 x 3.44x 2.70cms at the right,left is 4.47 x 4.27x3.72 cms.my OB- GYNE gave me medicine to take for 5 days to dissolve it.and she told me to come back after my menstrual period is over. im really scared and worried,because i really want to have a baby.my fiancee still dont know yet im scared to tell him. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH and i dont think i can make it without him. I dont want him to be very dissapointed of me. i really worried now,dont know what to do. i really want ot have a family but i dont know if im still capable of getting pregnant.
2007-02-19
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you should ask your ob. you shouldnt be scared to tell your fiance, your supposed to be able to tell him everything and if he loves you he will support you. he doesnt love you because of the kids you will have someday, he loves you for you, thats why hes going to marry you. if you have kids, thats a blessing. i wouldnt worry just yet, everything works out. i know its not quite the same but there are other ways to have a baby, you could always adopt further down the road if you were unable. but dont give up hope. if the doctor gets rid of them, which it sounds like thats what hes doing, you may be fine. talk to your doctor about it. or better yet, tell your fiance and him go with you to learn together, afterall, your in it together, you have to start thinking that way. good luck.
2007-02-19 02:38:01
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answered by loveboatcaptain 5
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Why would you be scared to tell your fiance?
I am sure he'd be very upset to think you're going through all this stress alone, without his support.
But about your problem, when the doctor asked you to come back did they tell you what they were going to do? If you want to know what your chances of having a baby are you should ask your doctor.
You should ALWAYS ask your doctor about your treatment, never leave an appointment wondering "what on earth...?". Anf if you think of any questions after you leave the office write them down, and then call the doctor later and ASK.
Important things like this shouldn't be trusted to a bunch of ameteurs on yahoo. You need to speak to a professional who has access to your complete medical history.
If your doctor discourages you from asking questions or wont answer your questions then change doctors.
2007-02-19 01:41:59
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answered by SydneyMum101 6
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You do not need to start worrying about this.. my best friend has 4 children with polycystic kidneys and ovaries. Her ovaries were the size of large oranges with cyst and she was told that she will never have any more children.. that was not true by any means. She had 3 more. I would not worry about this. Just stay calm and relax and things will work out.
2007-02-19 01:23:03
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answered by Anonymous
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To start, ask your doc his/her opinion. Secondly, there is still hope either way. My best friend was told 4 years ago that she was unable to have children due to multiple female problems. December 18, 2006, she gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. Miracles happen. I wish you the best of luck
2007-02-25 03:42:14
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answered by lil momma 1
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2016-12-17 13:38:46
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answered by holness 4
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you should tell your fiance, if he leaves you because for some medical reason you cant have kids thats craziness....there are other options out there like adopting and you dont even know if you cant have kids yet, so just be honest with him
2007-02-24 12:40:52
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answered by Anonymous
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That would be a great question to ask your doctor. And for your fiancee, if he really loves you he will not care.
2007-02-19 01:18:11
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answered by jasmyn 3
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you need to be speaking to your doctor and if your fiance loves u he will stand by you.
Best of luck
2007-02-26 21:35:47
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answered by Jassie's mum 2
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best person to ask is ur doc
2007-02-25 00:21:39
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answered by Mel 5
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you can be pregnant.
2007-02-25 19:59:35
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answered by TUMU S 2
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