he wanted me to on valentines day and now wants me to this weekend...im very comfortable with him and we have got close before when he fingered me but im afraid as some of my mates have said when they did it was too big to fit in them and they couldnt relax enough :S
2007-02-19 01:09:02 · 12 answers · asked by Beccy...xx 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
its going to have to get opened eventually. if it doesnt fit then you just try it another time. dont stop urself b/c of that. if your not ready then thats a different story. He might be annoyed that it didnt fit but he will appreciate the tightness of it when it does.
2007-02-19 01:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by BI - Health 1s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, before you read this answer I just want you to know I'm not trying to preach to you in any way shape or form.
Honestly, reading this post gives me the impression that you are in your teens and teenagers are never ready for sex no matter what their hormones are telling them. Intercourse is for bonding or the making of babies not for pleasure. Trust me when I say you will regret it if you lose your virginity. Although I am still a virgin meaning no penetration I have "fooled around" and I regret it completely. Do you really want to always be thinking "am I pregnant?" or "what if I am infected" because not all condoms are full proof and instead of birth control try self control instead. Reading what you said it sounds like you are definitely not ready and don't let anybody pressure you into it. Think about saving yourself for your future husband and how special that would be. I recommend you reading these two books before ever embarking on sexual actions "Pure Love" By Jason Evert and "Pure Womanhood" By Crystalina Evert. I hope I helped
2007-02-19 09:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Karoline H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready for sex. Wait till you are married.
Trust Me! Don't find out the hard way.
2007-02-19 09:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Gyasi M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every bf wants it..if you feel comfortable you can go for it but take protection..Lots of fore play and lubrication does'nt harm even the size is bigger..
2007-02-19 09:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by gentle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to relax and maybe try some oral techniques. that will get u both and and ralaxed and wet. then from there on out it's smooth sailing.
2007-02-19 09:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are very uncomfortable with him, don't do it! Why would you have sex with someone you are uncomfortable with? Just because he wants it doesn't mean you have to give it to him. If he won't wait, he's not worth staying together with.
2007-02-19 09:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Angela G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in still in HS then don't. You have your whole life ahead of you to do that. No need to ruin your life by getting pregnant.
2007-02-19 09:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Shep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts the first time. It really isn 't pleasant until you get used to it.
2007-02-19 10:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want it so you can tell him to wait until marriage.
If he is sincere he will wait, and if not, don't believe him.
He does'nt want your purity. God bless you. Amen.
2007-02-19 09:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by chandro 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try it once. yes it will be painful for the first time.
2007-02-19 09:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by anny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋