Ok i have this guy friend that i have of course fallen for. A few months back like back in november
i was talking to his bestfriend about how i like his friend. Anyways he asked his friend i guess if
he liked me or something all that line........and he said that he just wants to be friends. Well i
was cool with it...........So back in december My guy friend and his bestfriend and i went to the movies.
I payed for my ticket that nite which was fine with me. Well jits now feb and i went to the movies with
my guy friend last weekend and i went to pull out my debt card and pay for my ticket and by the time my
card was swiped my guy friend looks at me and says what are you doing and i turn to look at him and he
has a 20 in his hand i say im sorry i didnt know you wanted to pay for me so i ended up paying for my ticket
See last time we went to the movies he didnt say nothing at all about paying so how was i to know he wanted to
this time...
Well him and i were on the phone the nite after and i was thanking him for taking me to the movies the nite before.
Then all of a sudden he brings up saying that he was sorry if he was acting werid and i said i didnt notice and he
said that he was nervous and i asked him about what and he said that he didnt know why and i asked him if it was
becuz of me and he said no that he gets that way alot.................
Well about 2 nites ago i was talking to his bestfriend about what happend that nite and he said that he has never known
my guy friend to be nervous expect before a test or something really important. His bestfriend tells me to tell him that
i like him and i told him that i cant do that cuz he is a really good friend of mine and that i would be really embrasse
if i tell him and he doesnt return the feelings cuz i have a fear of uncomfortableness. I said i would tell him if i could
find out some more about where my guy friend stands cuz the last time his bestfriend talked to him he said that he just
wanted to be friends...............So he goes and talks to my guy friend to
find out more about what he thinks and me. His bestfriend pretends to act like he wants to ask me out to see what my guy
friends reaction would be and he said i dont know shes a really nice girl and then drops the topic and goes on to something
else.
When i got this info from his bestfriend him and i were thinking that my guy friend didnt want to encourage his bestfriend to
ask me out cuz he thinks that my guy friend likes me. So last nite i was talking on the phone with my guy friend and i asked
him if his bestfriend said anything to him about me and he said no and i said or cuz i said something to him and i was afraid
he told you and he said what was it and i said i cant tell you and he said you can tell me and i said no............then he
asked me what i was doing the following nite and i said i had to work and he said oh and i could tell that he wanted to ask
somehting else so i said why you ask he said oh i was just wondering and i said well there had to be a reason and he said i
have secrets to.........and we both laughed.........but it turned out that he wanted to ask me to go to the movies....
See this whole thing this really driving me nuts. Like i want to tell him i like him but the saying "i just want to be
friends with her" is keeping me from telling him. I know that it was said a few months ago and he could have maybe changed
his mind but i dont know. I mean i think there is signs of him liking me but i dont know. What should i do? I mean i have
already given hints that i have a secret and he probly knows off bat that i like him just becuz how i was refusing to tell
him and that i said i maybe someday tell him.
I dont know what to do! Please help!
2007-02-19 00:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and the whole time we where on the phone last nite i could tell that he was smiling behind the phone cuz of the way he kept asking me what my secret was...........lol
2007-02-19 00:51:41 · update #1
Rather than using his friend as a go-between (because this friend may have ulterior motives) why don't you simply say to your guy friend that he is special to you and if he wants to be more than friends in the future, all he has to do is to tell you. Stop being coy and just come out with it. Guys have to be forward most of the time and you should at least know where you stand by learning to be a little more forward yourself. Obviously, he is uncomfortable so make him feel a little more at ease around you by letting him know just how you feel.
2007-02-19 00:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like maybe the friendship is moving into the beginning stages of dating...take your time go slow and leave the other friend out of it
be cool...
2007-02-19 00:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long!
Anyway i really think he likes you but is too much of a coward to ask you so do him that favour and ask him if it bounces back .......... well it wouldn't be that bad, would it?
All da best
2007-02-19 01:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long text. Anyway take your time kid. It will pay off.
2007-02-19 01:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
edit yo question to something shorter
2007-02-19 01:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋