my eyebrows are thickbut my mother dont allow me to pluck!?

Question

my mom dont allow me to pluck but my friends already teases me about that!! what should i d???

Answer 1

tell her that your friends already teases you and your embarassed about it! in that case i'm sure that she will allow you to pluck!!

Answer 2

First of, she probably does not allow y ou because you are too young. I didnnt start plucking my eyebrows until my late 15. So if you are like 13, just hold on because the worst thing in the world is having a 13 year old girl trying to look like she is 20. It makes her look like a little whore... I'm not saying you are, I'm saying in general.
If you are older, she might not want you to pluck herself because of many reasons.. You might not do the two the same, pluck too much, etc. I would suggest to ask her to go to a beaty salon and have it profesionaly done. After you have the right shape, you can plcuk the hairs that are growing in right out. Just be careful not too pluck too much because even though they grow fast, you will have to look weird for a few days.
Good Luck!

Answer 3

If it really bothers you and you'd really like your eyes to look better, borrow/buy a tweezer and start very gradually. Pluck a few hairs in the middle and then a week later another couple of hairs. Then start plucking hairs that are really really not in place etc.. People won't notice the change that much, but eventually you'll clear up your eyebrows.

Don't pluck your hairs just because your friends tease you! Also, if you're young, there's no reason to start, it's not that important and it's really annoying to have to clean every once in a while. Your mom probably just doesn't want you to overdo it and come out really bummed. Talk with her!

Answer 4

Seeing how eyebrows take a while to grow back, she might just be worried you'll get "pluck happy" and end up with a constant surprised look going on. Try to tell her that you understand and that you are being teased and it hurts your feelings. You must make her feel like she can relate and connect and not put her on the defensive side. Suggest making a day of getting pampered ending in a eyebrow wax. Or even simply asking her to help you find the best arch and way to do it.
Good luck!

Answer 5

Thick eyebrows may be a hassle now, but you'll grow to appreciate them in the future. If your eyebrows are naturally thick, and probably dark, it will look bad if you try to make them very thin (maybe like some of your friends).

Grooming your eyebrows, however, is an option. You should ask your mom to help you pluck a few stray hairs that you think look bad- like if you have hairs between the brows on the bridge of your nose or closer to the lash line.

Otherwise, keep your eyebrows thick. They probably suit your face and have you seen the models this season? Thick eyebrows are back in style!

Answer 6

Yeah I hear about lots of parents not allowing their daughters to do this...sorry to hear that. But you can probably do instead of plucking..try shaping the upper part of the eyebrows by combing them upgrad and trimming them. I am sure this will give you a different look. Good luck!

Answer 7

buy a pair of tweezers and pluck them at school in the bathroom. Just don't go crazy, because one thing that irritates the crap out of me is seeing women who spent the first 30 years of their life plucking out all their natural eyebrows, and the last 50 years of their life drawing them back on with a black or brown grease pencil. TRUST me, that doesn't fool anyone. The natural ones look ten times better. Ugh!

Answer 8

Explain to her how you feel (calmly and maturely), and let her watch you do it. DONT OVERPLUCK! Stay with your natural shape and just clean up the stray hairs. Thick eyebrows are beautiful because they really highlight and bring attention to your eyes if they are well groomed.

If your mom still wont let you do it, and it is important to you (which I assume it is since you are asking about it), try doing it very slowly and gradually so she wont notice. Every day just take off a few hairs from several different places until you are done. She probably wont notice it until weeks later and then it will be done (Daughter, you look different, whats different?).

Plus, the reason why she wont let you do it is probably because she doesnt want you to mess yourself up, but if you do a good job, she might even like it and ask you for tips.

Answer 9

omg i had the same problem and i really didn't like my eyebrows cause they were thick and ugly. i really told my mom that its not fair and people are making funn of me and all she said was dont listen to them and your too young to get them tweased. after a week later she said shell do them for me to make sure i dont mess them up and everything turned out great. PS one tip is to never over pluck cause it can get really red and noticeable.. also dont overdo them cause the space b/t your eyebrows shouldn't be big!!!!

Answer 10

She probably wouldn't allow you to wax them either - but that's the way to go. Otherwise there is nothing you can do about it if she won't let you - the thicker eyebrows are coming back in.