ok.here's the problem.i keep talking a lot abt my crush, & how cute he looks & some guys in his class had gone & told him that i talk of him in a wrong way & that i constantly keep on complimenting his looks.apparently,my crush thinks i'm a psychopath now(seriously-one of my friends had explained to him that it's just my hyper way of dealing with crushes & that it's my personality but he wasn't convinced)...now he's freaked out by everything i do.(he doesn't know me very well.we hardly talk & i assume he doesn't know my real character at all,or has even bothered to find out).when i confronted him abt this & apologised,he just told me that he didn't know who to trust.was this a wise thing to do?
plus i just want to know why he thinks i'm such a psycho.i mean,i don't think that ANYONE would be freaked out by compliments & attention,are they?
guys-what would you do in a situation like this?listen to your friends,or ask the girl herself?would you even give her a chance to explain?
2007-02-19 00:01:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what should i do to uphold my honour?
thanks for the answers everyone!
2007-02-19 00:02:25 · update #1
Your crush may not be interested in you. He is aware that you have crush on him or you like him therefore as a man, had he been interested he would have long turned the situation arround and act as if he is the one interested in you based on the information he already got from friends of how much you cmpliment him. Talking about him in a wrong way is one way of getting his attention. He does not know your character because he is not interested period. He will make a move just to feel pity as he already persive you to be psycho, and it is possible that a guy like that already has a girlfriend or is commited to someone and he will come running to you whenever he is discouraged or disappointed but under normal circumstances you happen to be an ordinary girl who likes him and he happens to be a fortunate guy who is loved and admired by somebody. He might not even be thinking of calling you or being by the beach side with you. Just ignore him and he will then try to come to you but not because he is serious but he feels he is loosing one of his admirers. He will just persue your ignorance for a month and thereafter he will not bother you again and if that happens then I will be right in saying he does not love you. And sometimes you find yourself arguing with him over petty issues or over what a friend said to him about you or what he said to friend about you. Move on.
2007-02-19 00:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can best uphold your honor by not groveling at this guys feet. You have spooked him and you need to move on. Relationships are very sensitive. Hearts are smashed every second of every day. You are lucky that this time, only your pride is damaged. Learn the lesson this has taught you. Hopefully it has taught you something, and apply it to your future crushes. And most important is, Do not have sex with anyone that you couldn't marry and visa versa. Gain respect and you will have your honor.
2007-02-19 00:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by terterryterter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to back off and leave this guy alone. You sound like a psycho to me and I think that is only because you sound so desperate to get him to believe your not one. It's over, leave him be and tone down your enthusiasm with the next guy.
2007-02-19 00:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will do something to get back or gain some trust.so dnt giv up ur hope and keep trying at some point of time he will realise how genuine u r.This may take some time.If u consider it worth while then u go for it.
2007-02-19 00:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Deep eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seam to be wuite nervous himself, what is he afraid of?
You should ask him, ask him "Hey, what are you afraid of, I am just a girl"!
2007-02-19 00:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by toxisoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋