all she does is say were best friends and annoy me all the time, she likes me i don't like her i told her, and she gave me a valentines day gift i rejected it by leaving it in the room, now she's talking to me more i tried to avoid her she follows me some how? like a stalker
2007-02-18 23:56:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
its at a small private school
2007-02-19 00:00:19 · update #1
she left the gift in the locker
2007-02-19 03:42:10 · update #2
her locker
2007-02-19 03:42:30 · update #3
One thing that could work is to either get yourself an obvious girlfriend, or find some other guy to go after this girl, at least temporarily, to take her focus off of you. You could even event some girl that you are in a relationship with at another school, or in another town.
Over time with you avoiding her and not reacting favorably to her advances and offers, she will tire of you, and move on.
It's hard not to be rude or unkind when you really don't want to have a relationship with someone, but try hard to just be nice without leading her on.
What did she say about you not accepting her valentine's gift?
2007-02-19 01:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet n Sour 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
U R IN A PROBLAMTIC SITUATION
were u really best frnd b4 she told u abt her feelings if no
talk 2 her n tell her calmly that u donn wanna be wid her as its hard for u take her as a frnd knowing herr feelings abt u.u just need a break..........just for a mnth or 2 so that u can take that out of ur head........
n if u were really best frnd n its a problem for u then i must say that u r overreating
c if she ald hav been liking sum1 rather then u n wld hav got the same kinda of response it wld hav been better for her
as she had a frnd 2 console her
now she coincidentally fell for her best pal who doesnt think of her in that manner
in this case i think that u shd hav words wid her try 2 be her very gud frnd n do try 2 kno if she still has it on mind if yes try 2 make her understandn i think u kno how 2 do this as u r her best pal
n ya valentines is not just abt gifting ur bf n 1 u like its also abt celbrating luv ne 2 frnds hold so no need 2 over react 2 it
i think u need 2 think calmly over it liking sum1 is not a that big issue yaar n ppl who likes u r the best 1 u shd be wid atleast as frnd ofcourse u will never be ditched
but ya do tell the reality
HANDLE NETHNG U DO WID CARE
AS ITS ABT HER FEELINGS N U SHD NOT HURT HER
2007-02-19 00:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by tia 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell her very firmly to leave you alone, then warn her that if it continues you will have to discuss her problem with her friends and peers, threaten to be rude to her in public and discuss the problem with everyone openly. You can also suggest she see a councellor as she might have a problem which she needs to deal with. Be very firm at all times and try not to be abusive, ignoring her over a couple of days might also work. Good luck!
2007-02-19 00:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by calypso 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tell her again. If she seems so stalker-ish then i think you should be as in your face as you can WITHOUT insulting her (so she won't go nuts at least).
Maybe set up this act where she "accidently" walks into a room where you're laughing at her... It's quite cruel though...
Or talk to her... give her a chance to pour out her feelings and then tell her why you don't think you can be together...
Or maybe you could give her a chance?
2007-02-19 00:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by vaeda riella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
politely tell her that you are not intrested in her, and that you are n
ot ready for a boyfrirend, girlfriend relationship. but you must be s
ure that you are serious and sincere? OTHERWISE you may find
yourself in a mess. girls and women can tell right away, when yo
u are jiving, and trying to beat around the bush? some of them en
joy seeing you sqirm, when they got you in the wrong. for some r
eason with boys and men, when they are around certain girls and
women, theyre nerves give them away everytime?
2007-02-19 04:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try poking her in the eye, girls tend not to like this thus getting rid of the weird stalker!
2007-02-19 00:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by blossy19 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just call her out for the stalker that she is. When she comes towards you in the hallway scream "STALKER!" and just run as fast as you can in the opposite direction.
This always works.
Or just ignore her.
2007-02-19 04:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
play her at her own game for like a day except relly exagerrate it. dont leave her side and relly annoy her. then say when ur finished see how it feels.
2007-02-19 00:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear Friend,
If SHE is attracted to you...and try to call, Catch and Love to be with you then....I am sure...She will be the Best partner in your life. You Should not ignore this girl. Love and Be Loved.
All the best.
Ali.
2007-02-19 00:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by IdeaAdvisor 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
She is smitten with you all the way round. If you have no one, give it a go. Unless, of course, you are gay, strange, or under the age of twelve and have no idea how wonderful females are.
--That Cheeky Lad
2007-02-23 06:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋