2007-02-18 23:33:36 · 18 answers · asked by tyjytj c 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
cause women get hurt an hve a little cry over it till they get their own way, im a women haha, but it dont bother me, as long as u r happy then whats the problem, i dont use toys as i dont need to but if a man wants porn they hey i will go het it 4 him, lol anyway the stories in it makes me happy so we both win
2007-02-20 01:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by jen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't, but then again, I like both. Nothing better that watching myself on my home made video while buzzing myself to bliss!
Part of the difference is that some women get the idea that you are wanting the person on the screen more than you are wanting her.
I was once told, "Men are visual and women are mental." Besides being a very witty jab at women, it is fairly true. Women can get themselves off by simply thinking about something (and using a toy) Men on the other hand get more excited by visual stimulation.
2007-02-19 07:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tinker Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I complain about his use of porn ALOT! Don't get me wrong, I have tried to watch porn with him before and we've even engaged in sex while watching porn at the same time. He seems to "tune" me out when we do this...he's more attentive to the porn coming on the screen than to me...and I'm underneath or on top of him falling asleep due to his rythmic motions. We are obviously NOT going anywhere anytime soon at this pace!! Then, he will not come for HOURS! Sorry, but I have things to do in the morning, I don't have time for that to take so freakin long! On the other hand, I love to watch porn, but lately, it's been by myself.
Now, he hides it from me. He will hear me coming down the stairs and will switch the channel in a hurry. I think it's hilarious! Just don't understand men sometimes. And it's not like I'm a big fat slob, I mean come on...look at my picture to the left... to the left, to the left! Sorry couldn't help myself!! LOL
And to top it all off, we are in "the lifestyle"! Wow, talk about having your cake and eating it too with different kinds of frosting every night/weekend!
Now on the subject of toys...that's why I use toys NOW!
2007-02-21 15:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing is that men buy pornographic magazines which have pictures of naked women in the magazines, both bachelors and married alike. Their wives don't like the fact they are using those magazines and pictures for their own "personal gain" so to speak, and tpys are not really the same thing, though a lot of women do buy pornographic magazines as well, they are mostly without not being maried or involved with anyone.
I can completely understand why women complain about this sort of thing, because in one way, a husband with a pornographic magazine is an indication that the man does not love her as much and uses such magazines to spice up their own love life (I use that loosely), and it is rather insulting to their wives when the man thinks of sex with another women and not their own wife.
2007-02-19 07:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Porn is sad, and how anyone can get turned on looking at these girls, who mostly just look tortured is beyond me. Whereas toys are harmless fun, they dont hurt any body, and arent degrading women....
2007-02-19 07:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
toys are a physical stimulation as porn is to watch and stimulate i feel whats the problem with it as everyone has different sex drives
however some woman can be out off and feel like they dont satisfy there partner i feel do as you please if it makes you happy and dosnt upset anyone else
2007-02-19 07:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn usually degrades women, toys don't.
2007-02-19 07:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by FTW 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I agree. Have you seen the toys? They're so big and move so fast. I as a man, feel degraded.
2007-02-19 07:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
women are not as beautiful as the porn stars very often. plus men go a little crooked after hanging with their porn. women get this obnoxious egotistical phallic attitude like their vibrating piece of plastic is impressive to a man. don't bring up the issues if your woman is at the fat wholesome delicate lesbian egg stage of life.
2007-02-19 07:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
some men use toys too
2007-02-19 07:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋