well, this is weird but...... anyway, here are the reasons
-i am friends with some popular people and they are really nice to me but i dont eat with them because i dont wantmy friend to be alone.
now, she tries sooo hard to be friends with them to make me jealouse(which i am not) but when varcity night came she did not even talk to me or minded me because she was talking to the popular girls so i went with my other friend
-she keeps getting bf's even if they treat her like ****, so i make her break up with them because they just take advantage of her and she only gets bf's just for the sake of looking cool
-she wanted to wear a hella short skirt with really high heels and a tube top to an open party, i told her she wont dress like a whore and lent her my clothes (which she streched :(( )
-when we go out she NEVER brings money and she insists that we watch a movie or eat out and she never pays back
what should i do?
:)
2007-02-18 23:07:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And she's your friend why??????
Seriously, you need to be careful of who you choose to be your friend. Seems to me she is just attention seeking. Good or bad so long as she is getting attention. You need to evaluate what you are getting out of this relationship. List the pro's and con's of this friendship and figure out if it is worth all the trouble in maintaining this as a friendship.
2007-02-19 01:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by biggirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you and her are starting that journey of going your separate ways. If you say you hate her, then, it's time to move on. She sounds a little needy and you on the other hand, sound very independent. I would just start hanging out with different people and cut your ties with her. You will find that many people will come and go in your life. It's just human nature. If you really want to salvage this friendship, then, you and her need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk. Disclose what's bothering you about this situation. And then, you need to let it go and start fresh. This may also back fire on you, so be prepared. Good luck.
2007-02-19 02:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very choosy about friends, so I'm rarely in this situation, but here goes.
Friends shouldn't treat you like that. Talk to her. If she doesn't change her ways, then dump her. But don't dump her straight away, giver her a chance.
2007-02-19 02:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by phangedphluff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel my bff is a show off and she told my other friend that she only hangs out with cause i do fun and expensive stuff now that HURTS!
2007-02-19 03:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club
2007-02-19 01:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by xoxoDewtYxoxo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on she's a fake she's just using you don't you see it open your eyes
2007-02-19 07:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ i L0VE U S0 MUCH ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems fake to me you need to find a new friend who wont use you like she is
2007-02-19 02:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grow up
2007-02-19 02:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it sounds to me like your jealous of her.but on the other hand if i were you ,dont hang out with her anymore ,if it bothers you that much.
2007-02-19 01:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋