Hi I am 24 and I havent got the chance to have a girlfriend its because I am a bit shy and get scared to ask any girl as I think that girls might think that I am a jerk and just trying to pick on girls ,plus one more thing I fear is that if I ask any girl infront of any body she may say f**** or get lost try dating anybody else so she could embarrasse me infront of people.I study at very reputable uni and still didnt get the courage to ask a girl .Sometimes I feel scared that I would never get a girl friend.I think I was the only person without a girlfriend on valentines day !
2007-02-18 22:33:53 · 3 answers · asked by andi j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't feel bad personally I have a thing for nerds. If I knew you and we were going in the same direction I would date you. But don't feel discouraged you will find someone. Don't come across strongly get to know a girl first. Befriend someone after a while if you sense she's interested let her know in subtle ways you are interested. Remember character is the most important thing looks will fade but good character lasts forever. If you are rejected it's her lost and remember it happens to the best of us.
Hey you weren't the only one alone on Valentine's Day I'm single and LOVE IT! Ask yourself why are you looking for a girlfriend? Are you happy with yourself? If you don't love yourself no one will. That's trite but true.
2007-02-18 22:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any male friends that can set you up with a date or a double date? Being shy can be an attractive mannerism for a female. She will see you as not arrogant or too forward. As for being shy, it's not like you have a sign that tells girls that you ARE shy. If you have someone you have your eye on, just go up and introduce yourself, and smile. Ask them questions about what they are studying at the university or about any mutual teachers or friends you may have. Go from there. Maybe you should get on a chat line and find someone you would be compatible with. It's easier to write to someone when you are shy than face-to-face. That way you can become acquainted with one another before you can meet. That would ease your anxiety. There are many girls out there who are as shy as you are. Just be honest with them about your shyness. They may like the challenge of helping you "warm" up. Good luck.
2007-02-18 22:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best bet is to stop worrying about getting a girlfriend and try to be friends with girls instead. Don't get all worked up about not having a girlfriend, relax and be yourself. By hanging out with girls you'll get more confidence for when you meet a girl you really do want to go out with.
2007-02-18 22:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋