I was married and i fell into an affair immediately after a year. But a love affair. Coz i started loving that girl i carried on with her, sexually and every way... My love was unconditional as i had no complaints from my wife but since arranged marriage, did not have love for her. I loved my affair girl. She had a bad husband so she was looking for one true lover as she said... We carried on for 6 years and the my wife left me knowing this.... I married my affiar girl since i loved her... Her husband left her... We married not even a month and she doubts that i have contacts with my ex wife and tells she has done a mistake by marrying me... She allegates me and taunts me by linking me with my ex wife.. Whereas there is no contact at all and no feelings too...
Tell me what did i get for my true love... I spoiled my house for her... She says if you dont find me good LEAVE ME. My parents are too disturbed and say you wanted to marry her so you did..
This is what i GOT IN TRUE LOVE.
2007-02-18 22:19:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a relationship like this rarely works. You cheated on your wife with her. She thinks you will cheat on her with someone else including the ex. This is what you get for cheating on your first wife, its called Karma. You made your bed now lay in it.
2007-02-18 22:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have done a mistake, leaving your wife is very bad, u may not be loving her, but her feelings have been hurted badly. She wants u but u went with another girl, No wife can tolerate to share her husband with the other. In the same way your lover also has done the same mistake. How much ever u try to convince the ladies mentality will not change. Now atleast try to convince your lover and so called wife and try to explain clearly. With love and affection as u already know if u say any girl would be convinced.Kindly do it.
Dont say that u got only this in true love. There are many people who are living their life and having a lover are not happy, they as well look after her wife, children and their lover too.
2007-02-18 22:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason your new life is accusing you of seeing your ex wife is because you relationship is based on lies. You have cheated and lied to be together and now, you will be consumed by paranoia that the other will do the same thing. You have two choices, you can split up, start a new relationship one that is based on truth, trust and respect, or you can spend the rest of your life trying to make her trust you (which will take a lot of work!). It is not her fault that she doesnt trust you, and i wonder at you trusting her so fully! Its not s great situiation, but if you really are in love with her then you have to give it all you have. It is possible, but wont be easy! Good luck! x
2007-02-18 22:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you get carry of grow to be what you asked for. In 6 years of fooling around with this female did you ever as quickly as get away from mattress together with her and be conscious that she had a suspicious character? grow to be it your love that grow to be unconditional? Or your lust for her? Your first marriage would have been an arranged marriage, even though it grow to be one the two considered one of you consented to. in case you weren't going to honor that marriage, you need to no longer have entered into it regardless of familial pressures or maybe though society you belong to. you fairly don't have entered into an affair decrease than any situations. Now you have this "love" marriage it relatively is on the rocks. there is not any have faith for you out of your lover. have faith, and trustworthiness are 2 bedrocks that any marriage must be geared up on. Are you 2 going to break up? Or is there nevertheless a huge gamble to create a clean relationship? If there remains a huge gamble to salvage this marriage think approximately to earn her have faith regardless of climate you're doing something incorrect or no longer. Does she have touch with your ex, or any of her family individuals? consistent with hazard somebody is undesirable mouthing you to sabotage your new marriage. What ever you do locate the thank you to construct have faith between you. pass away so there is not any hazard of touch with the ex. placed on a beeper, or cellular telephone so your new spouse can attain you on each occasion she needs. And no excuses in responding to her. tell her your daily schedule, and shop on with it. And in case you need to substitute some thing, she needs to be the 1st to appreciate. you haven't any longer "spoiled your place". What you have tried to do is create a house that's supplied upon love and careing for an further, and that's admirable. Now all you need to do is make it artwork. actual love does not have punishments, yet actual love does must be sustained, and labored upon 24/7/365 via the two companions. stable success
2016-10-16 00:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like maybe she was in love with the idea of a happy marriage. maybe she wasn't in love with you at all. neither of you are really at fault for that. Maybe she was miserable in her first marriage because she had a more romantic idea of marriage in her head. She is going to have to realize that there is no ideal marriage and fairy tail lives don't exist. You two should try counseling. Making a marriage out of an affair is going to take alot of work. Good luck to you
2007-02-18 22:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by N I K I 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, you reap what you sow. I don't have much sympathy for you. Not everything in a relationship is about sex, and it seems you made that a major priority in your second marriage. I don't think you deserve a marriage until you set your priorities straight. Your parents are right in being "too disturbed". What would you want them to say? What would you want us to say? You will find no support here.
2007-02-18 22:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u broke a marriage for pursuing an adulterous relationship...cheated Ur wife...and claim unconditional love to someone else in search of happiness ....
....u never can be really happy over such a shallow relationship .
2007-02-18 23:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not broad over the problem .you started it all alone so now you should face the consquence.hoestly leaving will not be a good idea try and make her understand you.
2007-02-18 22:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by yamulilo2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be green when you see far on the other side. But went you there you will realise it is the same.
2007-02-19 01:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry u desrve even worse than that
firstly you cheated your wife
afterwards ditched her
and u call it that u r a true lover
2007-02-18 22:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋