we have triyed to make it 3 times in the last 6 mounth onley got it dun once. ok we have 2 kids ben togeather 8 years. it has ben off and on since our last kid. who is allmost 2 years old. she sas the last kid runed her drive. but it is more then that. she tells me it hurts. it is not varey wet. i triyed to get her to use ky but she tells me she dont like to use that stuff. dont know why she is so aganst it. idont even think she has ever tryed it befor. the last 2 times we just get started she makes me stop becaus it hurst her so bad. i would think that she would still want hers? but i cant take it aney more! it is to the point i feal like room mates. what to do??
2007-02-18 22:17:13 · 5 answers · asked by farm_boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She should consult a doctor if it is hurting during intercourse. Let her know that you miss her very much and that something needs to be done so you can get back to normal
2007-02-18 22:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just saying it hurts because she doesn't want to have sex and by saying it hurts her she thinks you'll just leave her alone about it. I say go to your wife and tell her you have called and made her an appointment with a gynecologist to find out why it hurts when she has sex. If she refuses to go which, I'm sure she will since this problem is bogus then tell her she either does go or your thinking of leaving. I had a friend who pulled this crap with her hubby and guess what? She was spreading her legs with another man on the side. Guess it didn't hurt so bad from the other guy...LOL
2007-02-19 06:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's got post natal depression and probably doesn't even realise it. Go to the Doctor with her. Tell her that she doesn't need to feel all sad and blue all the time and that it's not her fault cos sometimes women's hormones just go bananas after giving birth. Get her some multivitamin B complex supplements too cos if she's depressed, she's probably not eating properly and this would have a big impact on her state of mind and energy levels. Just be nice to your wife, she loves you mate, she's just in a sad spot and needs your help !!!
PEACE
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2007-02-19 06:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Minx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems entered in menopause so early. Of course its not abnormal. In that period most women dislike having sex.
Or she may be affected by diabetes.
I can understand both of you. First you both see a counselor and then consult a gynecologist to let the pain go.
2007-02-19 06:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Nenet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should go and see a doctor if it really does hurt for her to have sex so long after having her last child. Ask her if she just doesnt want to have sex, you might be better off just to front up and ask so you know what is going on.
2007-02-19 06:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋