2007-02-18 22:00:25 · 8 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't know you, so I can only guess. Have you been mean or cruel? Have you been rude? Have people been the butt of your crude jokes? You reap what you sow; be kind to people and you will earn respect.
2007-02-18 22:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Gee Wye 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a charisma thing, Chuck.
Some folks have it and some don't. You can't learn it, you have to be born with it.
I'm sure you're a nice guy in your own opinion but there's gotta be something about you that makes people back off when you come on the scene.
I'm guessin' that if people ignore you right off the bat, it's probably your appearance that is a tad repulsive. If they take the time to talk to you then shun you, it's definitely your personality.
Nevertheless, it's no fun being "odd man out". Perhaps a little professional help might do the trick.
2007-02-18 22:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not sure im on the same sensitivity level as Sarah but she does have a (albeit small) point. Your being paranoid im guessing your a teenager and that is normal thinking however if it continues to get worse you should seek professional help. And let me clue you into one thing EVERY teenager thinks there parents hate them, and almost every single one of them is wrong cuz if they really hated you they would kick your a$# out without any other place to go. And as for your friends backstabing is like a right of passage around teens so if it is really bothering you then find some new friends.
2016-05-24 07:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did something crucial happen which made everyone start hating you?
If not, you're probably imagining it... There are bound to be people who are hostile... I mean, everybody can't like everybody. Instead of fretting about the people who appear not to like you, think of the ones who ARE your friends, and be a good friend to them, instead of pushing everybody away. After all, it's not how many friends you HAVE that counts, but to how many people you ARE a good friend.
Cheers. ;)
2007-02-18 22:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by beachblue99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe people are just jealous of you.
But on the other hand maybe you're just a person who is very much up themselves.
2007-02-18 23:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you have too much of it or others are jealous because you have more guts than all of their guts combined.
:)
2007-02-18 22:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be an *ss. Try being a sincere, genuinely kind person. (note: I did not say a nice person.....people chew nice people up and spit them out)
2007-02-18 22:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by lydlykarug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you look like a toilet. (and they're jealous)
2007-02-18 23:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋