am i gay help?

Question

i think i'm gay i don't know how to tell because i like boys and **** and well sometimes i watch gay porn please help because i'm really sad about this because everyone says that i'm gay and stuff well i think i am and well i don't want to be because my parents shuned my brother once he told them he was gay help me

Answer 1

Only you know the real answer to your question. There is not a cure for homosexuality. I feel for you, because I know it is a hard life to lead. Do the best you can and hold your head up high. Don't let anyone drag you down.

Answer 2

well first off all that is really stupid if your worried about your parents.....they should love you no matter what you are gay,straight what ever. and second just go with your heart is telling you. Not everyone is going to look at you differently just because you are gay. And if they do....so what. it may be hard for your parents/friends when you first tell them but they will get over.

Answer 3

how old are you? have you ever been with a female? Did you like it?

Only way to tell is to test the waters with women if you do not want to test them with men. Better to try the straight way if being gay upsets you.

Once you've done this, be honest with yourself. DId you like it? Did it fulfill you? If not, then weigh your options. If your parents have an issue with you being gay if that is what you decide .. then they are the ones with the problem.. not you. You are still YOU regardless of your sexual orientation

Answer 4

Talk to your brother about it, he might be able to help. If you think you are gay, then you are most probably gay. Do not hide who you are, and if your parents don't accept it...understand that they are from a more unforiving generation...but if they are willing to disband the family just because of sexual preference, it shows that they do not value the true sense of family. I mean it's not like you are betraying them...If they eventually accept it, then great, if not...let it be and go and do your thing, find yourself.

Answer 5

You need to do the followings things to see if your gay:

1. Take a chair.
2. Put it in front of a mirror.
3. Ask yourself if you are gay.
4. Don't answer, listen to your heart.

This will give you all the answers to all your questions.

Answer 6

You are the only one who can answer that question for real. Be honest with yourself. Don't let others influence you. After all who's life is it and who is living it. You can't let others live your life for you.

My parents weren't too happy when I came out. What I think is if parents are really good living parents they will get over themselves and support their child. The world gives us enough grief without having to get it at home as well.

Answer 7

I think when your under your parents dime then it is not a good idea to come out until your fully self supportive. and independent
then you can choose to move to a gay mecca and see all the other boys and men.

Answer 8

Be straight with your parents. If they don't accept you for the person that you are, their son, shame on them! Nothing wrong with being gay. It's better to have people hate you for what you are, rather than love you for what you're not!

Answer 9

You are the only one able to state whether you are gay or not. As reguards of your brother, your not living in his shadow. You may have one thing in common but Its your live and you have every right to live it the way you want to.

Answer 10

people just have to over the fact that there are people in this world that are gay. as for your parents they should love you for who you are not your sexual orientation. just except who you are and then you'll be much happier instead of trying to figure everything out.