why would a "happy man" be addicted to chat rooms and married and looking, my husband and i share a lot , were best friends he says he's happy and our sex life is great so why would he be in chat rooms talking with men and women is he an addict?
2007-02-18 21:19:39 · 16 answers · asked by willie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if he meets them.
And only if there seems a problem like UNDERAGE
2007-02-18 21:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chat Rooms are very addictive!
2007-02-19 05:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may very well be addicted to some form of taboo sexual chat or may want to try swinging. Have you asked him about this issue? You need to get this out in the open if you haven't. Ask him to stop if this is causing dissent in your marriage. If he won't then ask him to seek professional help. Work with him on this until you find your at the end. There may be more to it than you realize.
2007-02-19 05:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Be honest and up front, i know it's scary and you don't wanna push the wrong buttons sometimes but if it bothers you that much, say something. I mean you're married, u should be able to talk to him. I think alot of guys go looking for trouble is cus they think the thrill of getting caught would be exciting. I don't know. Try something different and spontaneous and keep him on his toes and maybe he'll behave. If he says the sex life is good, abuse it and make him want it and then hang it over his head. :D being evil is awesome!
2007-02-19 05:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Foxy20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that you know about the chats? Maybe he is addicted or he just enjoys some innocent flirtation. Sometimes things get beyond innocent and develop into emotional ties. If it is something that you cannot handle, you should express this to him.
2007-02-19 05:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, same situation is with me.
Sometimes people tend to vent their feelings somewhere.
Or it fills some of the excitement vaccum in their lives. There is nothing wrong with you or him,Relax.This is a fad ,he'd come out of it.
2007-02-19 05:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by ramesh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be an addict or he might enjoy chatting with other people because he can't think of anything to say to you.
2007-02-19 05:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is looking outwith the home for something he is not getting within it, how much further is he willing to go when just chatting is not enough? i'd be worried
2007-02-19 05:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Atleast he is home honey!!!
If he starts with the late homes or mysterious needing to go out then start to worry.
Go on with him. Ask him to show you what and who he talks to tell him your intrerested.
2007-02-19 05:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by KAO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in a chat room for bearable time, it is okay. However, if he ignores you, then you should disallow him.
2007-02-19 05:26:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a social outlet for him.don't worry if your relationship is great.yes he probably is addicted,but you two share the most important things.that is worth it in itself.
2007-02-19 05:32:17 · answer #11 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋