Hi How suddenly one becomes kind towards a person against whome he or she had many things to say?
2007-02-18 20:39:25 · 4 answers · asked by raashi 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
After realising the Truth.
2007-02-19 00:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by khuranapvp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Offer them your Compassion and Love. If you don't feel comfortable doing this with words, let yourself feel these states. Be happy when you're near them. Don't badmouth them any more and if you feel up to it, apologising for past mistakes sure as heck helps!
I've just had a similar situation with a person where I work. I read about how His Holiness the Dalai Lama has forgiven the Chinese for what they did in Tibet and I thought...well, if he can do that, I sure as heck can do what I can for my work collegue!
Try it. It works. Like a charm or a miracle!!! hehehe...
Good Luck!
Love and Light,
Jarrah
2007-02-19 06:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by jarrah_fortytwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is you who has realized as to how small and petty minded you were. Your sense of insecurity made you imagine things and when you found your beliefs to be totally wrong then you became kind and considerate to the person to whom you had unjustly formed an opinion about.
2007-02-19 06:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Susheel B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forgiveness is the best way!!!!!!TO ERR IS HUMAN BUT TO FORGIVE IS DIVINE!!!!!all religions preach it just try to do this u ll surely succed
2007-02-19 06:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by IYER S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋