why people are mostly selfish n more in big cities?
2007-02-18 20:34:29 · 9 answers · asked by raashi 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
some people due to lack of self confidence..... not all people selfish
2007-02-18 21:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Dinesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the advent of nuclear families and the greed to acquire more the average person has forgotten the joy of sharing.
In Big cities the pressures of day to day activities and the cost of living bogs you down and when one is so engrossed in their own misery they are totally unconcerned about the affairs of a friend. If you can control your desires and take joy in small thngs you will realize that the joy of sharing is far more than the joy of hoarding.
When one is not caring about his own parents and is insensitive to his neighbours and all that they think of is me, mine and myself then only time will teach them a lesson. We need to be good and selfless and it is with these virtues that you will see contentment and happiness.
Let the selfish be what they are do not let it change you, continue to be kind and considerate and if you have the inclination try to change their way of thinking.
2007-02-19 06:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by Susheel B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people wanted to earn more and more money nowdays.the time of today demand more money.mostly people think that they can keep themselves happy if they have money.todays generation feels that material goods are more important than values,love and respect.
they are becoming selfish as the competition level in every aspect of life is increasing due to population exposure.
in city life there is more materalistic comfort than in villages.
2007-02-19 04:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by aakash k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone in this earth has born to do something ,, we can't stop them .. SELFISHNESS in my thought is one which will only can be considered when own's interest is included in that!!!! life always teach us to take thing in a +ve way!! so when u feel someone is becoming selfish then better to make the work happen in another way!!!and try to give him the comfort that he is correct in his thought!!!and believe me if u can implement it u will be surely one of the intelligent person of the earth!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-19 09:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by shiba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People allow themselves to become selfish.
2007-02-19 04:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfishness...... is the main MOTO now a days.
2007-02-19 06:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by khuranapvp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because people have to face more obstacles in their life, be it in personal or official life.
2007-02-19 08:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by d s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
survival.....
standard of living....
fast life.....
small dwelings.....
lack of privacy........
and
cut throt compitition.............
2007-02-19 05:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by rajan t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more compitition
2007-02-19 04:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by arizonaprincess2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋