I've known this guy through the net for 5 years. We got Madly in love.He lives 8000 miles away!He visited my country last year & said he'd wait forever 4 me.A month ago, he said he doesn't love me & that the distance was too much & we were better as friends.I even offered to quit my school'n & go there, He rejeceted me SO descisevly & a week later, he said he started meeting another & I don't know if that was true or he was just pushing me away.
I Can't let go!! He treats me So coldly, However I feel I wanna talk to him no matter what! I'd die if our "Friendship" ends too. I still love him with all my heart, But I'm torture'n myself. Any Advice on what I should do?
2007-02-18 19:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by Mary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanks for the quick reply's, they're really useful! But there's smth I wanna add... What if that guy Always refuses to say that he doesn't love me? He even gets mad when I ask him to say so! *embarrassed* I'm sorry if I sound silly, but does this mean anything at all?
2007-02-19 10:25:30 · update #1
oh, when I said "He said he doesn't love me", that wasn't exactly what he said. I meant he said it won't work & he doesn't wanna go on.
2007-02-19 10:27:17 · update #2
Dont kill yourself. Breakups are always hard. Right now give him his space. If you guys see that you can be friends then go for it, but thats often hard to do. Don't pressure him to be with you though. Just walk away with your head up.
2007-02-18 20:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by So_many_questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down or he'll end it worse.. and the thing that he started seein some one, I chop my hand off that he started dating long time ago before he made the decision to breakup. which means he didn't really love you the way that he could see you in his future.. and that type of love shows how unstable he is and he still think that there is some one better in there is still waitin for him. I know that is hurtful and especially for us as a girls when we get use to some one, we can't just give it up like that. but guys are different. they are always looking for what is the best for their future. just let him see how great and faithful you were for him but never beg and be a good friend until you meet someone else and lose your feeling for him..
Godspeed..
2007-02-19 04:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance relationship cannot be taken postively by every1.
maybe u took it in a good manner, he might not be able to do so.
if he is cold with you...let him go for now....
try speaking to him after a week or 10 days....it will give both of u some time.
good luck
2007-02-19 04:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by CB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love a person long distance. Long distance relationship seldom works. Stop torturing yourself and move on with life.
2007-02-19 04:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Times change dear, so as the heart. You can not force someone to saty in love. It's better to let go.
2007-02-19 04:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him! that's all you can do. he's not the only man in this world. it may be painful now but the pain will pass, i assure you. stop thinking about him, go out with your friends, met new guys, have fun. girl, love yourself. you're wasting your time moping about lost loves. get out in the world. enjoy.
2007-02-19 04:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray
2007-02-19 04:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.... if those words hurt your feelings.. sorry..
2007-02-19 04:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by mikz_cute_08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋