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even if she says she didn't remember and you were cool with her.what does it mean?

2007-02-18 19:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

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If she "stormed" out of the room as you categorize it...
then you did something to offend her or really piss her off.
If I were you, I wouldn't approach her for a while...if ever.
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned..."

2007-02-18 19:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by GeneL 7 · 0 0

I think More to the Story is Needed to Give an Accurate Answer

But Being a Girl, I would Say If you said Sorry, She Stormed out of the room, It could be Several things depending on the Situation
1. She didn't think you Actually where Sorry
2. She hates you now, and Regardless of the Sorry or not...you're screwed
3. She Was mad that you Apoligized because you Don't see her side and it Frustrates her
4. She realized that even though you apoligized....you just don't get it, and there wasn't anything she could of said at that moment to you so you would get it, so she Got pissed and stormed out because sometimes that's easier for Girls, because we don't want to have to Walk a Guy through Baby Step conversations of why we're upset.....because sometimes that makes us more upset and Angrier at you that we have to Explain it in the 1st place (we Expect you to just know)
5. She was still upset, Realized that you said sorry, but didn't know how to Express what she was Feeling at the time so she just left
6. Maybe she didn't Storm out, maybe you are looking into it more then you should (but it depends on how she walked away)
7. It could be so many more reasons

Girls are Complicated and Every Girl is Different in some way, So instead of Avoiding her completely like one person Suggested, You might want to give her a little while then Approach her Or
You might want to Approach her again with an Open mind and try to talk about it, and see what happens. Depending on what you did and who is in the wrong.

I would need more to the Story to give a more Accurate answer

2007-02-19 03:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by hot chick 25 2 · 0 0

It means that something is going on inside of her that she doesn't want to tell u about. You can't make her storm out of the room, only she can do this.

A possible answer is that someone has told her that it's a sign of weakness to apologize; she believes that apologies are necessary in order to move things forward. What she ends up with is two conflicting values, and this produces an internal state of confusion, possibly anxiety. When a mammal is faced with anxiety, it has 3 possible options - fight, flight or freeze. She didn't freeze and she didn't fight, she ran away (flight).

So, internal anxiety brought on by her. U can't fix this, only she can. Bear in mind that the more you bring this up with her, the more likely you are to bring the anxious state on again. If you do this too often, she will associate the anxious state with you and then avoid you - which is the last thing you want.

Be cool, forget about it, and if you need to apologize again, do it in a different way and see whether this makes a difference.

2007-02-19 03:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Dogstarrr 4 · 0 1

Quite simply, she has not forgiven you.
It could be any number of things. When you apologized, did you apologize in a way that you took the blame or did you blame her?
Did the apology actually refer to what you had done wrong, or did you gloss it over?
Sometimes it is not what we say, but the way we say it that makes people angry.
Try this:
"I know you are upset with me, but I don't know why. Can we talk about it? Please help me understand what I did."
If she doesn't respond to you, then you will need to move on... Some people like to hold onto their anger and there is nothing that you can do to change that!

2007-02-19 03:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0 0

Have you heard of hormones? It can change a woman's perspective on one day, but change on another. Wait a while, see how it goes another day. She may have had time to rethink the situation and change her mind.

2007-02-19 04:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0 0

She may want u to find her other days and leave immediately now.

2007-02-19 04:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by wendy9448580 2 · 0 1

u stop following her

2007-02-19 03:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by smileys 2 · 0 0

you are lucky cause you don't have to deal with her no more.

2007-02-19 03:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by higg1966 5 · 0 1

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