Isbeing a gentleman in big cities such as losangeles and newyork?

Question

still appreciated?Even if there are immoral people?Do the women still appreciate it?

Answer 1

of course. they acually appreciate it more cause it dosnt happen as often.

Answer 2

I don't exactly know what you mean by "gentleman" since it seems like women everywhere (and not just in those cities) don't appreciate them as much as they probably should (and immoral people are everywhere as well, since you mentioned it), but I really think it depends on the overall person, as long as you aren't "too nice". Living in Los Angeles can be very difficult if you don't make a certain income because houses and rent especially DO NOT come cheap and the cost of living is higher, and same for NYC (if not worse), so economics come into mind as well. Overall, what I am trying is that the total package matters, not just being a gentleman- motivation, drive, ambition, etc. are important as well.

Answer 3

Personally I think being a gentleman is always appreciated, but then I am just an older woman who remembers when youngsters gave up their seats to seniors on the bus.

As for immoral people. Some of the politest people on the planet are the rudest. Morals and manners do not always go together. Think of the European aristocracy with their fancy manners and their loose morals.

and yes, I still give up my seat to oldsters and mothers.

I, for one, appreciate good manners. No man who practices them is a loser.

Answer 4

I am not in your big city but I appreciate it If you are trying to be a gentleman. It does not matter where you live being a gentleman is just being a nice fellow. They do not always finish last. Some just think they do.

Answer 5

nice guys in la still finish last, women respect money power and fame, leave that gentlemen crap at home where it belongs