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Question

How long did it take you to get an orgasm after loosing your virginity, i cant give myself one my boyfriend with an 8" cant give me one im getting desperate as im starting to get vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv randy!! HELP

Answer 1

you need to experiment with yourself honey....see what you like. only 10% of women can orgasm during intercourse. The other 90% by clit stimulation. Im a lucky one who can do both. Climaxing takes alot of concertrating and you need to have your mind set right. Its not the size of the penis that counts, its how they do it and what you like and what state of mind your in. My husband and i have been together 4 years and it took me ages to get an orgasm, so dont worry hunni, just experiment.....good luck cup cake xxxx

Answer 2

Some women have a very difficult time having an orgasm through vaginal penetration. You can try different positions like you being on top or getting it from behind. It also helps if you put a few pillows under your back or your butt to raise your body closer to your boyfriend which will help your bf's penis hit your G-spot.
If these don't work for you, try clitoral stimulation. if you are on top then either you or your bf can rub it while he's inside of you. Another good position is being on your side b/c you will have good access to your hands.

Answer 3

Hi!

It's a well know fact that some women cannot get orgasms through penetration alone.

Some women can only reach orgasm by either using toys or the mans tongue or fingers.

You don't say how long you've been having sex for, but just be patient and try lots of different things, i.e. toys, read sex manuals etc.!!

Best of luck!

Answer 4

Try masturbating. Or try this: Lying down open your legs under the faucet in your tub and spread your lips down there. Allow the flow of warm water to hit you on your clitoris. This works quickly. You may get what you want that way. Let me know on this page if that works for you. Once you have had your first orgasm, you'll find other ways to make it happen again. Trust me.

Answer 5

I am a 34 year old women,It took me two years after losing my virginity before I could orgasm.This may sound dissapointing, but since then I orgasm lots & often have multipel orgasms. Yeepee!

Answer 6

I suggest you start by exploring your own body by yourself. You can experiment with different types of stimulation, techniques and fantasy to discover where you find pleasure and what it takes to bring you to a climax.

It will be MUCH easier to have pleasure with a partner if you already know how your body works.

There are lots of books and DVDs on this topic, plenty of tools and toys to help, and you'll be glad you learned about all of it.

Once you know what it takes for you to peak, SHOW your boyfriend and let him experiment with you. Men are usually happiest when they know how to make you happy and aren't just guessing at it. Have fun and play safe!!

Answer 7

what is the rush?
it was 2 years after i had lost my virginity that i experinces an organism for the first time..in that time i had left my boyfriend and met another man who was gentle and more experinced..but sise does not matter.Before penetration i would suggest plenty of oral stimulation..woman on top seems to be good at getting more control..orgasuim is not the b and end all of sex...the more you try and make it happen..the less chance it will.Relax..slow down and try different positions.

Answer 8

after 3 rounds

Answer 9

Stop trying so hard..Just let nature take its course and make him use more than his hur hur 8" thing,failing that a visit to Ann Summers wouldn't go a miss providing you're over 18

Answer 10

it doesnt come straight away depending on ur man.........he has to find ur g spot which up towards ur belly it will b somwere round there orgasms are gr8 and u will have one dnt worry just try to find that g spot