I'm a grown woman. I have been seeing this man for two weeks on the thrid date we had sex. This has never happened to me before. I felt very confident that he was a good guy. He told me that he was not with anybody for 4 years. I feel as though I fell for something that really was not there. I feel very hurt. When we go out he constantly looks at other women. Granted I have model looks yet he still does this. I do not understand why he is so disrespectful. Today, we had a little arguement and he said he needed to go for a walk he was not very talkative. He left and was not nice enough to call me and see if I arrived home ok. I live fort-five minutes away. I arrived home at 12 am. I decided to call him and he did not pick up his home phone and he turned off his cell. I think that this guy had sex with me and dumped me. I guess I am in denial. I am very hurt. But what can I expect when he is looking at every woman's *** when they pass by.
2007-02-18 18:16:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My Dear ,
first of all I do not belive you are a grown woman.
I do not believe 18 is grown so don't even try that with me. You are
either very young or you simply behave and think like an adolescent.
It really sounds like you have been used, as unfortunate as that is,
there are many more creeps out there than nice, decent men. Get that straight right now.
Fooling around when you don't know how you feel about a relationship is trouble. Possibly life threatening trouble these days.
Doing it is not just foolish fun. It is STUPID not to mention damaging to your self esteem. If you need to see a Dr do it.
But don't call people in the middle of the night, you only do that if there is a real emergency. (Car accident,house on fire) it gets old and annoying very quickly. People need to sleep.
You also sound very jealous . That is also childish and annoying my 77 year old grandfather was on the beach with my family one time. He said to my Dad," Hey Jack ,look at that bikini " I said Gramps you are a married man! He said I may be married but I'm not blind! They were married for about 60 years. Guys that have eyes look at stuff .Get over it.
2007-02-19 00:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by FOA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you had an argument and he said he needed to take a walk. Why can't he be upset about the argument? I mean maybe he just wants to take a bit of time to cool off. If all he wanted was sex it wouldn't have taken him 2 weeks to leave. You have to know when to pick your battles when it comes to a guy looking at another woman. It's not always a big deal. It's not when a man looks at another woman it's when a man screws another woman you have to worry about. We all look, some are just better than others at keeping it discrete. Give it a day and if he doesn't answer your call on Tuesday then you should be upset. If you do get a chance to talk to him don't start the conversation angry. Ask him if he's cooled off enough to talk. I just think it may be too early to tell if it's over.
2007-02-18 18:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't beat urself up about it. i met a guy after being single 2years i had a 3year old n i had 2 be choosy who i hooked up with i thought this guy was nice too but we had sex then he came over a few more times but then he tried to hit on my ex's 16 year old neice he was 24years old it took me a while 2get over it and try again im now engaged and have a newborn baby girl things do get better in time u'll meet someone WORTHY of YOU. you dont deserve 2be treated this way no-one does good luck n relax if u have model looks it shouldnt be hard to find a nice man
2007-02-18 18:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by jade 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart guys are jerks. I'll admit sometimes when I'm with my babe my eyes drift and I'll glance at other guys he does the same but he lives with me and we're together so I don't really get to upset about that. If you feel as if it was just for the sex then let go. I know its easier said then done but do him how he does you. I'm glad you made it home ok and I hope everything works out...
2007-02-18 19:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mz Bree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is the reason rescues stink. They not in any respect supply people a destroy and maximum don't understand uncomplicated canines practise. You not in any respect introduce a sparkling canines and imagine it is going to workout in certain situations it takes time. canines stay in packs they could get alongside, basically learn some uncomplicated assistance. look on youtube or google. Be comfortable and clam around the canines have power of the chief. Be positive.
2016-12-04 08:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men look at women.. no matter how much they like love you. my ex bf of over 2 years did it all the time! we would actually talk abotu it to eachother "eww look at her butt" its a natural insticnt. fdont tell me you dont go checkingg out guys every so often.., dont be hypocritical.. mayeb he just wasnt feeling you that well.. obviously something is botherin ghim and it may be that argument.. try calling him again and try to resolve your isues wiht one another.. but you guys have only "been together" for only 2 week. i would just move on. if hes acting up wthis early then what would be happening in a few months or years?? i would personally just move on..
2007-02-18 19:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
see this is not a problem which has occured only to you. But just try to forget him and leave his relationship and don't ever try to talk to him. And just go and have a check up with a gynaecologist so that you can confirm your problem to her. If you cannot forget him just go and tell this problem to your closest so that they can give you a better advice. If you have any intrest other than this just try to put on your brains to that. I hope this will work out. Good luck...
2007-02-18 18:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand his present situation may be he was busy or in official meeting at that time so he was not in the position to pick the phone (may be he was not at home) and due to charging of cell phone ...... so dear always think positive..... I can understand your situation...... In the world everything is possible..... If you think he had sex with you and dumped you... and he is selfish... then you must leave him .... and forget him as a bad accident... never talk to anyone regarding this.......
2007-02-18 18:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by Dinesh 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, what a pain that your heart feel now. I think that guys is rude and so chicken, he didn't responsible for what he did to you. Well, get over it by pray to God, doing something that you like, and try forget him forever.....what a nightmare that happens to you, don't give up girl.
2007-02-18 18:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by roy_marzoed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend im a 15 years old male but altought my age I had a horrible love dissapointment already. I encourage u simply do what u feel is correct! I mean if u love him but he doesnt you have to acept it. Anyway u have to talk seriously to him and tell him what u feel.
Good luck:) kisses.
Any doubt just mail me
2007-02-18 18:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by Diego 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋