How do you change peoples' perception of you?

Question

The question says it all, I need help in changing my reputation. Suggestions, answers, anything?

Answer 1

yes but please take me seriously:

wake up tomorrow and everyday saying " today is a new day and a new (add name here). Then do exactly that, strive at improving yourself and not doing whatever it is that you are doing now. For example:

If you have a bad rep for sleeping around or being easy just stop doing that. when you meet a new guy, let him get to know you and don't put out. If you are known for being '60 second Sally' or that just knowing you and a guy can get with you, go 3 or 4 months in a steady relationship without putting out.

Another example, if you have a bad rep for being a real b**ch then start being nice to people and search for ways to avoid confrontation when you really want to snap on someone. You can cut them off and ignore them.

There are so many more examples, but my fingers are getting tired. lol I hope that you get the point. It takes time but if you are really committed to self-improvement than you can do it. Just keep in mind that you're doing it for your happiness and not for others.

Answer 2

Act in a way that you want to be known for. If you're a nice guy who's trying to spice up his image, just start being less nice. If it's the opposite, try to get the word out that you donate to charity (even if you don't), and be polite and courteous to everyone.

Really, just do whatever you want to be known for. In the beginning, you may need to be a bit blatant with it, just so people take notice, but try not to over do it.

Answer 3

Tell me what your reputation is, then tell me if its true, and then I can answer your question and have it be a good answer.

Answer 4

Whoop down your pants and show 'em your ***.