i intend to get marry next year but how do i...........?

Question

tell my other babe she is not the one for me. in the course of my searching for a wife, i ended up dating two girls at the same time. they both know i was cheating on them cos i let them in. i love them both but im only intrested in marrying the one i love most. how do i drop the bombshell to the other girl?

Answer 1

If honesty and truthfulness is not one of your traits, you will have a hard time in a marriage let alone the fact that you need to strengthen your communication skills and raise your standards and moral clarity.

With this said, tell the "other gal" ASAP! Get over her and focus all your time, effort, and energy on "the ONE". If you don't close the door on #2 all you are doing is keeping her going and leaving yourself a place to cheat and the breeding grounds for heartache for all.

It's time to step up the responsibility levels and be the best you can be. Time to commit and make #1 your #1.

Answer 2

You call her on the phone, invite her for coffee, and tell her straight out your feelings and that you are marrying someone else. No pretenses, no delays! If she won't answer or respond to your phone call, then either writer her a letter or an email and describe what you about to do. Write nothing disrespectful, but end the relationship and move-on, otherwise you risk loosing them both.

Answer 3

tell her the truth instead of her hearing it from someone else. be the big person and let her know how you feel about the girl you plan on spending the rest of your life with. she may be hurt and feel used but in the end she will realize that you were not meant to be and she will find someone to heal her heart.

Answer 4

why get married? You have nothing to offer a wife. They should both dump you.