I started a new job and met a man that swept me off my feet there..yes its bad..my fiance and I are on the rocks and about to split...well this guy told me the first couple of weeks how it was love at first site and how he wanted me to move in and share his life with me. he said he would marry me right away,,,
well after tonight he said that he doesnt want to call me anymore and that maybe we should keep our distance...why do guys act so in love at first and then after a week they act completely different ?? I started to really love him. Why do guys feelings change so easily?
2007-02-18 18:03:39 · 9 answers · asked by katie j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give him time and space. if he said he was in love with you, he will come running back to you and will miss you. i wouldn't worry about it and i would take things slowly hen you guys start a relationship again.
2007-02-18 18:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by JR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a fiance, and you really started to love this other guy, maybe the problem is that you do not know what love is, but are only infactuated with the idea of being in love. that makes it much easier for guys to take advantage of you. So maybe it is not that the guys feelings changed so easily, but that the guy could see how easy it would have been to make you believe whatever he wanted you to believe. He got what he wanted and now needs to move on. there are alot of #$*holes in the world who are just looking to take advantage of a girl like you.
2007-02-19 02:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy could be another Hank Snow lol!! My sister met a guy a week before Xmas. He bought her a friendship ring for Xmas, told her he love her, was really nice to her, then dumped her a week after Xmas. A lot of men go from one to the other so watch yourself make sure the man is love with you before you fall for him. Give yourself lots of time even if you lose him. Make a man prove himself before you fall in love. A good way is don't believe what you hear. Keep eyes & ears on the ball for what he does.
2007-02-19 02:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Stars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you had an affair with him and believed his nonsense. He probably lives with his mother. If you and your fiance are on the rocks before you get married, imagine after your married! An Explosion!
2007-02-19 11:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him.you should have been more careful in the first place for your fiances sake.The other neither wanted to marry you nor did he mean any of the things he said to you.He only capitalized on your gullibility.Just try and make up with your fiance,its worth the try.
2007-02-19 05:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by sharonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love the chase ... especially if they're taking you away from someone else -- it's a challenge. Once the challenge is over, it's not as exciting anymore.
2007-02-19 02:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like it's meant to be......and obviously progressed much too quickly. That alone should have told you something.
Perhaps he received, all that he needed?
2007-02-19 02:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor silly girl.
Did you sleep with him?
For some people, it's always about the chase.
2007-02-19 02:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid he is not the one for you. He does not sound so sincere.
2007-02-19 02:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋