what is friendship and how can we choose good friends?

Answer 1

Actually, opposed to all those deep quotes about friends being people meant to be together, I don't think thats true. I know 2 guys who're best friends since elementary school, and they're different as hell, same w/ me and my friends.

I believe it's all about how much time you spend with the person. period. The more time spent gets you to understand them better, and makes them more enjoyable

Answer 2

This small things makes to Define an ideal friend

Someone who knows what you need before you say it.
Someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry.
Someone who truly listens when you have something to say.
Someone that's there for you during the good and bad times.
Someone who is caring.
Someone who loves you with all their heart and soul.
Someone who is interested in reality and not as a fashion display.
Someone who is honest.
Someone you can trust them like a sibling, confide in like a friend but most of all, love as the great lover they are.
Someone who is open and responsive.
Someone who is never critical and ill-tempered in respect to your needs.
Someone who knows when things have to be compromised in the relationship.
Someone who understands listening is a key, but using what is heard is even more important.
Someone who's there for you no matter what.
Someone who is trustful.
Someone who is a friend.

Someone who gives a shoulder to cry on.
Someone with a great sense of humor.
Someone who has things in common with you.
Someone who takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else.
Someone with a constant open ear, open heart, and open mind to accept and love people for who the really are.
Someone who will always be there to support your ideas without argument and love you for everything that you are.
Someone that can get a point across without yelling.
Someone that remembers all the cute stupid stuff you love.
Someone that has a personality with qualities you don't have yourself, but admire greatly in them.
Someone who realizes you're two separate people, and appreciates the differences.
Someone who can sense a mood problem, and not take it personally.
Someone who understands the difference between PMS, and a real problem.
Someone who can make you happy when your sad.
Someone who tells you the truth even if you don't want to hear it.
Someone who will not hurt you intentionally.
Someone who is a sweet, romantic person who cherishes you no matter what.
Someone that you can laugh with.

Someone who you can feel comfortable with and that you don't care what kind of weird stuff they see you do because you know they will still love you no matter what.
Someone who will love you in spite of your little idiosyncrasies.
Someone that would do anything to show how much they care.
Someone who is a great pal, a great kisser, and a great lover..!
Someone who allows you to be yourself around them.
Someone who will respect you.
Someone who cherishes your hopes and is kind to your dreams.
Someone who knows you're not perfect, but treats you as though you are.
Someone who listens with their heart and is your source of inspiration .

Answer 3

Friendship means sharing things in common.It may also mean having someone you can tell your every thing and is ready to advise you where necessary and also ready to keep your things as secrets.
1.Parents can help in choosing a good friend.
2.Choose someone who can advise you correctly.
3.Choose a friend who has developmental ideas.
4.Choose a friend who is drug free.
5.Choose a friend who has God fearing.

Answer 4

Friendship is not about whom u have known the longest, who came first or who cares the best. Its all about who came and never left.
Lips does not join when we say love.ie sign of distance.but when we say FRIENDSHIP lips joins.ie sign of togetherness.
Respect those friends who find time for you in their calender but love those friends who dont consult their calender when you need them.These r the best,good and true friends.
Another way to find a good friend :
u can test a person if he's good and true,by seeing how he behaves with low standard people.
If the person behaves good with them too then he or she can be a true and a good friend.
But if the person behaves badly with them then take a leave and forget that u ever met that person.
That's it.
Good luck with findin good friends.
Bye.

Answer 5

friendship is the coming together of two like minds or souls who share similar hobbies or pursuits.
a good Friend is only recognised when things go bad they will stand by you when others do not.
you choose acquaintances who become Friends who in turn become life long pals time will help weed out the good from the not worth bothering about.

Answer 6

Friendship is the acceptance of the person in toto.

We all are good friends. Pl meet us.

Regards

Answer 7

Simple vs Real


Anyone can stand by you when you are right, but a Friend will stand by you even when you are wrong...
A simple friend identifies himself when he calls. A real friend doesn't have to.

A simple friend opens a conversation with a full news bulletin on his life.

A real friend says, "What's new with you?"

A simple friend thinks the problems you whine about are recent.

A real friend says, "You've been whining about the same thing for 14 years. Get off your duff and do something about it."

A simple friend has never seen you cry. A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names. A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed. A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems. A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest. A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.

A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them. A real friend expects to always be there for you!

Answer 8

finding good friends is finding people you are comfortable with and can be yourself around. we are all still trying to find ourself and so friends can easily influence our personality and such. when you find the right crowd, you feel as part of their group without having to change anything about yourself. you will feel respected by them and things they do are things that you would not object to. good friends respect who you are and accept you even for you differences. they care about you and never puts you down.

friendship is among the most precious relationships in the world. besides love they offer you support and make your world a better place. though friends can be annoying sometimes, it's not about their annoyance that matters, but for the fact that they are there for you when you need them and will always be there for you.

Answer 9

A relationship which is choosen by our own ways where we feel free to express ourselves, is friendship. u cant choose good frnds. but can differentiate between two catigeries. 1) who understands ur feeling in same manner as u feel them and 2)with whom u want to be always as he supports u in ur action and corrects u as and when required.

Answer 10

Friendship is a unrelated person who is there to pick you up when you fall,wipe your tears when you cry,listen to your dreams,agree to disagree,never fault you when your wrong,laugh with you not at you,long tempered and kind,always there for you wheather good or bad,nonjudgemental,slow to critsize,To just be there when need be .You will find a friend.