im so scared?

Question

im scared because i think im going to hell for one im lying to this guy on the internet and its really serious im even engaged to him but im lying about everything and he said he'd die for me and everything. and i lie alot and steal too (like lie about stuff and steal items from relatives) and i try but its just too tempting to stop i really really need help so can someone please....just help me =(

Answer 1

There is nobody here who can really help you. You can help yourself, though, by going to a doctor and discussing this and getting a referral to a psychiatrist or psychologist. You obviously have some mental issues that you need to deal with regarding intimacy, honesty, and obsessive behavior. Call your doctor. Good luck!

Answer 2

How can you be engaged to someone you have met over the internet. Sounds like a lie to me. Or do you mean you engage in conversation with some guy on the internet. Two totally different things.

Yes, you need some help and I suggest you find some help in your area. Start by asking your doctor how you can get help--who you need to talk to. Look in the yellow pages for couselors in your area. Talk to the local police dept. they should be able to help you want to try a little harder to stop stealing from others.

Seriously, no lie. Get some help.

Answer 3

There are several subjects you indicate having problems with ...

EMPATHY--Key to Kindness and Compassion
- What IS Empathy
- Scriptural Examples of Empathy
> How to Cultivate Empathy
- Empathy Helps in Christian Activities
> Cultivate Fellow Feeling
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2002/4/15/article_01.htm

Why Cultivate Virtue?
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2001/1/15/article_01.htm

Should I Apologize? :
- Why Is It So Hard to Apologize?
- Apologizing--A Key to Making Peace
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2002/11/1/article_01.htm

Alone but Not Lonely :
- Why So Many Lonely People?
- When No One Will Ever Feel Lonely Again
- What You Can Do About Loneliness http://watchtower.org/e/20040608/article_01.htm

Can Internet Dating Really Be Dangerous?
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2005/5/22a/article_01.htm
Chat Rooms--What Should I Know About Them?
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2005/9/22/article_01.htm
Chat Rooms--How Can I Avoid the Dangers?
http://watchtower.org/e/20051022/article_01.htm

How to Make REAL Friends :
- We All Need Friends
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good Friends--Bad Friends
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm

Love of Neighbor Has Grown Cold ...
- Love of Neighbor--A Reality
- When ALL People Will Love One Another
http://watchtower.org/library/kn35/article_01.htm

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Answer 4

you need some real help you will go to hell that's one of the commandments that shall lie or steal 2 commandments you need to see your parents or priest or preacher and confess what you are doing and that guy on the Internet i would watch out for you never know who's out there.

Answer 5

well you may need help --but here isn't where it is...BTW how do you become engaged to someone over the internet?

Answer 6

Yes, Definately i will help me absolutly justtell me what u lie him and did u love me ? what the matter ? look if it is a matter of love he will forgive anytime . reply me