Please answer in moralistic and practical sense.
2007-02-18 17:48:28 · 14 answers · asked by Dushyant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats good you have taken the first step to knowing that she will be better off. but you will get through it.. I am sure it will be hard at first but take it day by day its not wrong for you to feel sad.. don't rush into another relationship bbut you will find someone who is better for you.. think about it this way you deserve better too!
2007-02-18 17:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by scytherbug@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First a fall u should try to leave her, since she is going to be married with other person. She would become wife of some other person. If you are really interested and have courage then go to their parents and tell that u are going to marry her and u should be capable to look after her after marriage. U should be in a position and u should be able to convince their parents. If you can then go ahead or else atleast try to live her happily with her husband with whom she is going to marry.
2007-02-18 22:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it is her decision to choose another ,you can only say that 'it is her wish that matters ' . And if you think it would be good for her too , then take it lightly and try to think in terms of practical truth that to go after someone who is not loving you is a fooly .
2007-02-22 12:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend, a very hard time, but believe me, only time will heal it. don't drink, don't cry, don't feel sad, everyone will tell u a million things.but the truth is that all this will happen.n u cant help it. just believe in yourself and spend more time working or with family n friends.
time shall heal the pain automatically.
it did work for me n im sure itll work for u too.
2007-02-18 18:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by AMIT G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are already coping. You've accepted the situation. The rest will come naturally. With time.
2007-02-18 17:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I faced the same situation 6 months ago it will be very very hard time for you to face. some suggestions from me if you miss her dont ever call her if u call her u will probably land up in severe problem just divert your mind from her by keeping your self busy. onething dear dont give up you will be definetly all right BEST OF LUCK.
2007-02-18 21:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by kool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her.. dont even think of her being just a friend too... it cant happen... she has carried on.. you too shud do the same... there is a hell lot of things to explore in this vast world... it will take some time.. but you shud forget her.. no other go... delete her contacts from ur cell or mails.. u will be better soon.. al the very best...
2007-02-18 17:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can she be your girlfriend if she's just going to marry another person? Maybe it's a sign that you need to move on and find the right girl that you really can call your girlfriend...
2007-02-18 17:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♫♪♥♥♪♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, this happened to me before. my bf married another woman despite vowing it was me he loved and that it was just to please his family and to get a visa on some country he wanted to go to....i coped by hating him with everything that i have...until such time i couldn't care less about him. i never allowed myself to miss him and forced myself to loathe him for his decision. i guess it was easier for me to move on by doing that instead of crying and missing him.
btw...he's been trying to get in touch with me for about a year now...i was never interested to find out why.
good luck!
2007-02-18 17:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a good start to stop calling her your girlfriend. It seems to me she no longer is.
2007-02-18 17:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋