I'm a grown woman. I have been seeing this man for two weeks on the thrid date we had sex. This has never happened to me before. I felt very confident that he was a good guy. He told me that he was not with anybody for 4 years. I feel as though I fell for something that really was not there. I feel very hurt. When we go out he constantly looks at other women. Granted I have model looks yet he still does this. I do not understand why he is so disrespectful. Today, we had a little arguement and he said he needed to go for a walk he was not very talkative. He left and was not nice enough to call me and see if I arrived home ok. I live fort-five minutes away. I arrived home at 12 am. I decided to call him and he did not pick up his home phone and he turned off his cell. I think that this guy had sex with me and dumped me. I guess I am in denial. I am very hurt. But what can I expect when he is looking at every woman's *** when they pass by.
PLEASE HELP I thought he was a nice guy!
2007-02-18 17:16:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You are a "grown" woman? And what age is that exactly? If you ARE grown, you are immature. Some men are jerks. You found one. It doesnt matter what you look like, men will still look at other women. And it may be that you are so full of yourself thinking that you have "model looks" that he wanted to find someone else. Or maybe he just used you for sex because you gave it up pretty quickly (by the 3rd date). If I was a guy, I would want a woman that held out a little faster than 3 dates.
And why would you be hurt? You barely knew him. Mooooove on sister.
2007-02-19 00:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by an88mikewife 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He used you. You slept with him (that does not make you a bad person or easy) and he dumped you. It's that simple. Now, you move on and forget about it. It wasn't worth your time or effort if he didn't give you enough respect to stop looking at other women. You found a jerk, he used you, now move on. Find yourself another guy. You may feel hurt now, but with time it goes away. Take it fromme, I know. I dated a guy for three years, he took my virginity, and then he cheated on me. You just have to move on.
2007-02-20 00:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Audrey Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look that guy that sayd he used u baby.im a nice guy.meano jerk just like the one u were used by.
NOT TO BE MEAN BUT...
but u gave it easily and guys like that for adventures btu not for seriouse realtionships.
so u gotta move on.Im bearly 14 and i know how guys are.
ive been with my guy for 6 months and u dnt see me goin into his bed.
He knows how to respect me and i respect him.
2007-02-19 08:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been used Baby. I'm a real nice guy.
2007-02-19 01:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go key his car
2007-02-19 02:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as a bad accident you must leave him then start new life otherwise you will never find anything.....
2007-02-22 16:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dinesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋