I've only known this guy for a few weeks. Anyway, I think he is dropping hints that he likes me. Anyway, He said to me that he can see it in my eyes that I like him. I honestly cant remember what I said or how I reacted when he said that. I was totally shocked. I wish I would have just came out and said yeah, your right. But I didnt. Anyway, he wanted me to stay and eat with he and his family.. but I refused.. I said I wasnt hungry.. which wasnt a lie. but it wasnt the full truth anyway. The real reason was because I think a hot guy like him should have pretty friends.. not ugly ones like me. I called him to see if he could come over.. I wanted to talk to him.. he said his parents said it was too late tonight.. maybe tomorrow.. anyway.. do you think he'll come over tomorrow?.. I'm scared I've lost him forever. I realize he does deserve better than me. Now, his parents probably dont like me since I didnt eat with them when he eats with my family.. Do you think he'll be back?
2007-02-18 17:01:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If he comes back.. I'm gonna tell him the complete truth.
2007-02-18 17:01:48 · update #1
I have a feeling that he may come back and I hope he does!.... Girl, don't think low of urself! What makes you think your not pretty enough for him? NO one is perfect and maybe he's not looking at your beauty! Take up the confidence and don't put urself down like that! Don't reject him either, he'll start being distant. The fact that he invited you to dinner with his folks is really great! He likes you gal!
All the best! take care and have fun!
2007-02-18 17:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this isn't good. You've got to think more of yourself. This guy likes you. He cares about you, why don't you find yourself worthy of that?! You can't go around constantly saying "why me, I don't deserve someone like him" because you do and if you keep on having that attitude about things then you're going to lose him because he'll probably get sick of you thinking that way about yourself. Stop sitting around wondering if he'll come back. Don't go looking back at something you did saying you shouldn't have done it because you can't change it. Take things one day at a time and PLEASE stop hurting yourself this way.
And if you tell him whatever the truth is, DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT go telling him that you don't deserve him and that you don't know why he's with you. If you do that, you will lose him because trust me, it pains the other person to see someone they care about thinking so terribly about themselves. It can sometimes pain them even more than it pains you.
Also when guys see that you are insecure, they can use that against you. It can also annoy people when someone constantly feels bad about themselves but more importantly, you have to think about the fact that you are hurting you.
I hope things get better.
2007-02-19 01:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by meg (on Violet Hill) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...don't ever think someoen deserves better then you. Guys especially can see a girl's insecurities, and also you don't know how he feels. Don't tell him he deserves prettier frineds or girlfriends...who is he??? God? Let him chase you, if he really like you, he will care enough to make an effort to see you. Don't worry , any guy you ever meet should make a complete effort. Always remember that!! BTW- you need to bring up your self-esteem, and start beleiving you are a great girl, because you probably have more to offer then other girls who are "pretty". Remember that too.
Best wishes.
2007-02-19 01:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll be back... because he knows he can have you. It doesn't sound to me like he's too good for you- all that's in your head.
Never play games in relationships. Be honest- with him and with yourself. If you really like him, say so. If you find you only like him because you think he's super duper good and there's not much else going on other than the fact that he pays attention to you, dump the idea and find someone that you're actually interested in.
chill out and be honest.
2007-02-19 01:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by rilo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start believing in yourself. It's not the outside that matters, it's how beautiful u are on the inside. Yes, I think he'll come back, and when he does have dinner with his parents. The most important thing is BE YOURSELF.
2007-02-19 01:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Odviously he likes you otherwise he would not have invited you to stay. I'm sure that he'll come over. You say that you're not pretty. Well,to this guy you're not ugly.
2007-02-19 01:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by castaspella0183 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think he will come over tomorrow. But I also think that you should have more confidence in yourself. First of all men like you more if you like yourself. Dont ever think that you arent good enough for someone or that you are too good for them. He is lucky to have you and you are lucky to have him. That is the only way it will work.
2007-02-19 01:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you known him for long?
obviously he thinks you are pretty or there would be no interest
relax and find a way of meeting him in a social situation
make sure you feel good about yourself, get rid of the low self-esteem, cuz everyone feels bad about themselves once in awhile, choose to feel good about the great person you are
2007-02-19 01:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by onemark1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart you are always good enough for a guy, to good in fact, don't ever say any different. i think he'll come over,if not you don't want him....
2007-02-19 01:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by jossieray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he will come back
2007-02-19 01:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋