I had a really good friend who would fix me breakfast when I stayed at her house. We had always slept in the same bed(nothing ever happened) and I had told her that I liked her. Later I found out that I had to move due to my job. On the day of my move, she came up to me and handed me this small package and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I had longed for a kiss from her. I opened the package and there were these CD's(she knew I loved music) that all had writing on them. On all of the CD's she said that she loved me. And we didn't throw that word around freely. A year and a half went by and I ended up moving back to my old place but it is different between us. We don't really talk or do anything together and I want that to change. I love her and I want us to be together. We've never actually dated but when we were close we carried oursleves as if we did. I'm thinking that outside pressures have affected her(I'm African American/Native American and she is a gorgeous Iranian)
2007-02-18 16:34:53 · 3 answers · asked by TheChicagoKid 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm not sure if she is into girls either? She always seemed to be...like with ehr choice in music, movies, etc. But she never actually said she liked girls.
2007-02-18 16:48:35 · update #1
start by seeing if you can rekindle the friendship and get it back to the level it once was. if you can, then approach the subject of "bicurious feelings" in general. if she is comfortable talking about it, then mention you've often felt you had feelings for her and see what she has to say. obviously, if you want love, then becareful not to rush into sexual things.. if you are both ok with a little fooling around, then go for it. hopefully she will be receptive and willing to at least discuss all these options with you..
2007-02-18 17:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really talk to her about it, your possibly right about outside pressures affecting her. Because if you want more than a friendship out of it then dont keep trying if she is not comfortable with it.. let her know that your there for her either way, and let her know how you feel definitely.
2007-02-19 01:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by meg r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever discussed this with her? I think you should tell her you are attracted to her.
2007-02-18 16:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋