I'm attractive with a nice body. But, why do I always land the guys that I'm not attracted to for whatever reason? It's so frustrating! Please help!
2007-02-18 16:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by Remixed Kiss 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Keep in mind that I'm not sleeping with any of them.
2007-02-18 16:30:06 · update #1
hey the grass is not always greener....i usually get the guys i want and then after being with them i realize that they are nothing close to what i wanted....ive gone from the super needy to the way too into themselves to the way too into me to just plain old weird
im way too big on looks and its proven to be a horrible way to go about getting together with someone....i mean looks are clearly an issue because i cant be with someone i dont find attractive, but ive grown to kills relationships after a few dates if it just isnt looking like its getting anywhere
i figure that eventually i will get what i want and i will be what someone else wants and that will happen for you too
2007-02-19 10:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Huh? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try writing out the qualities of the guy your looking for.
or you could try going on gay.com to find more attractive guys in your area. I have been with many guys I didn't feel attracted to but felt with time the attraction develops anyway. ie. older men, bigger men(bears), very studly men, tattooed men. rich men, poor men, short/tall, black /white Asian etc.
i found that after seeing and *feeling* this man. I was able to figure out what types of guys that I was attracted too. of course thats always liquid. Think of yourself as a servant to the male race. and I'm sure u will be happy at the outcome.
2007-02-18 16:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by Raver Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Because the guys you don't want find you a challenge.
2. Because a lot of the time, when guys want you, they do not know the difference between acting sweet and acting spineless.
3. Because wanting guys that are hard is much more of a challenge and therefore much more fun.
2007-02-18 16:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Laura H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly you might be attracted to the wrong guys or taking the wrong approach.
how to tell the difference? observe how guys in question treatothers
and assume they treat u same.
then look guys ur attracted to and ones ur not.
if you attracted to jerks, beware, dont say not warned.
if you attractr jerks, then look at your approach.
2007-02-18 16:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a clear image of exactly what you do want? If so, do you place yourself where those types of people hang out?
2007-02-18 16:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by pepway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you act and dress rolls you over to different groups and you could be ugly no offense and more desprite guys like you
2007-02-18 16:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're looking too hard. They say that when you stop looking for something, you find it.
2007-02-18 16:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by jedilounge1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to lay with any thing that is there
be willing to wait for the one you want
he is out there
2007-02-18 16:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by zara3 goodie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try women, I think that may be a big part of the problem.
2007-02-18 16:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you a woman keep trying. If your a man you should be castrated.
2007-02-18 16:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by Deutsche359 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋