It is someone that her sister works with but she has never personally met.I have read all of the messages and most of them are harmless. But when he asks her what did you do this weekend, she says "I didn't do a thing" when we spent the whole weekend doing all kinds of great things. Its like she would rather not mention me at all. Another instance was a comment he made. He said "Your bf didn't bring you out?" when she said she stayed home instead of going to the clubs and "sat around all weekend". Truth was she fell asleep early which she apolgized for because I had wanted to go out real bad. We have been going out for 1 and half years and I do trust her, but I just find this "talking" relationship with this guy odd especially when I get left out of things we both did. There are alot of I's when there should be we's. What do you guys think?
2007-02-18 15:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by cwoodward1981 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dude, you better nip that in the bud right now. Could be trouble on the horizon.
2007-02-18 15:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have never been in a serious relationship, but I think you should watch out. If she can't even mention you to this other guy then either she has a crush on him or she thinks your not even worth mentioning to him. It may seem harmless, but if it bothers you then it is harmful to your relationship. I think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel because after all, she would not like you treating her the same way.
2007-02-18 16:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by PlainJane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so over myspace too. if f*cking things up. my boyfriend started talking to the random girl. and then she started asking him questions about sex and how her name was porn princess and stuff... i got really upset about it cuz he was hiding it from me. but then i added her on msn and chatted to her (she obviously didnt know who i was)... but i went off at her and told her to think about who she speaks to about those things because it was clear he was already in a relationship and that she should consider the other people involved (ie, me) and how that convo may hurt their feelings... she turned out to be this real insecure girl who was looking for fun... and i told her to look somewhere else... some may say it was my boyf fault, and yes it takes 2 to tango and dont worry i got up him too... the point is this guy is probley just looking for some pretty attention, which im gathering your g/f is giving him. so explain to her that your not impressed and if she cares about u and loves you, she'll stop talking to him.
2007-02-18 16:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by bec4887 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by blasone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound llike you need to talk to her about this,if she lying to him
about what going on and the fact that she has a boyfriend, that
not good at al. that trouble waiting to happen.
2007-02-18 16:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
iif you and your girlfriend are serious she will not leave you for a mystery myspacer and if you are upset tell her if she acts in a negative way then she is not the one. Honesty is the way to go!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-18 16:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Emma R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh oh..myspace drama..well you should check up on her..cuz i found out my bf was cheating on me through myspace..and she was "just a friend" when i asked him about her..so..do what you gotta do!!
2007-02-18 16:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by prettylilady05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get her out of that as soon as possible before she gets killed.
2007-02-18 16:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by frankiethunders 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried emailing him? Or talking to her?
2007-02-18 15:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would not allow her to continue talking to this guy =)
2007-02-18 16:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by Graham 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋